Single & Loving It? The lived experience of single women displaying masculine traits

This study examined the experiences of single women, aged 25-30, who have characteristics traditionally defined as masculine. These women follow non-traditional sex roles and see themselves as more independent and self-sufficient than more traditionally feminine women. The study explored their views on being single, if they would like a partner, and what qualities would attract them to a partner. In order to determine whether they have more masculine traits than feminine traits, the Bem Sex-Role Inventory was used as a screening tool. A total of six to ten interviews with the masculine identified women were conducted. The women were asked how they experience being single, do they feel stigmatized, or are they generally happy? In addition, they were asked if they are seeking a partner, what they desire in a partner, and how they feel prior relationships have contributed to how they view being single at this point in their lives. By asking these questions, a clearer understanding of how independent, instrumental women view being single was developed. In addition, this information can help therapists to work with single women in this age group and perhaps reduce the stigma that has historically surrounded single women over the age of 25.