| In china, the image of the mother is full of mythological color, and thus the mother & daughter relationship is a dualistic antinomy. Under the drive of motherhood, the mother has a sense of self-oppression, which causes her daughter's emotional dissatisfaction and therefore self-oppression. In Zhai Yongming's poetry about mother & daughter relationship, the daughter grew continuously during the confliction with her mother, and finally eliminated the sense of self-oppression and thus formed her gender consciousness and self-awareness.There are there poems of Zhai Yongming focusing on topic of mother & daughter relationship: "Mother," "the chart of Death" and "fourteen Songs". This paper analyzes the mother & daughter relationship created by zhai in the angle of psychology and feminism. "Mother" was written in the early 1980s, which mainly embodied poet's spirit oppression caused by the abandoned experience of her childhood. The daughter attempted to weaken the sacred light of the mother' nurture and cut off the mother's tradition to establish her self-awareness. At the same time, her suspicion and revolt towards life is in fact a deeper love for life. Since the birth of "Fourteen songs", the poet has had the consciousness of exchanging with the world. Diverting to the news style of objective depiction Zhai's understanding of the mother has also entered a new phase.Finally, at the end of this thesis, the article pointed out that the writing style change in the later time of the poet brought about the collapse of poetry, making the initially established female consciousness facing the crisis of imbalance. |