Unmarried Young Patients With Malignant Tumor Parents Psychological Experience Of Qualitative Research

Objective: Through interviews of unmarried young malignant tumor patients’ parents, insight into the unmarried young parents take care of children in malignant tumor patients during the innermost feelings, to identify the psychological impact of the care of their children for their parents, help to develop a targeted intervention measures, can in order to further improve the unmarried young patients with malignant tumor parents provide reliable theoretical basis for the physical and mental health.Methods: By describing a phenomenological research methods, adopt the method of purposive sampling, after the informed consent of the respondents, with eight unmarried young patients with malignant tumor parents semi-structured in-depth interviews, recording the whole interview process, while listening to observe the participants’ behavior, expression change, when the volume, audio, and quality of information and record, the recording information word for word into the text data, and double check it. Interview content by using Colaizzi analysis method are analyzed.Results: Parents of unmarried young cancer patients’ psychological experience when caring for children can be summarized into five themes: 1 Passive to accept The research object of this study parents when their children diagnosed with malignant tumor, feel doesn’t know what to do. Because they think the malignant tumor is a kind of disease that is not easy to cure. So when they heard the children had malignant tumor, they fear may losing their child,they don’t know what is a good case in a panic, and feel mind blank. Skepticism and deny the facts: 1.1 Shockdoubt whether test results misdiagnosis. 1.2 Doubtsome respondents do not believe that this unfortunate event will happen on their own. 1.3 Denied some respondents in extreme pain, psychological insurmountable, think about their unfair fates. 2 Active treatment Parents believe in the study of the malignant tumors are a threat lives of their children, but they are under the threat, the children will still be hopeful, expect after treatment to save their children’s life. Also found that this group of parents will let children treated actively, can not give up any opportunity for the treatment of children’s diseases. 2.1 All one’s heart and follow the doctor’s instructions Under the background of the current medical technology is developed, some parents hope to improve the children’s survival, so they strictly follow the doctor’s instructions.2.2 The active treatment, do not regret Sometimes when facing treatment effect is poor, they still insist on treatment, with all the power of interpretation of a parent’s love. 3 Under psychological pressure alone Take care of children in the process of care, heart and soul, at the same time for fear of child pressure and affect the treatment itself, therefore deliberate hide their feelings of grief, and rarely is passed to the world of inner emotions. 3.1 Unable to communicate effectively Some parents because the child to hide the actual condition, which leads to the communication between children and need to cover on the surface, the inner emotions do not agree with the external expression will greatly increase the psychological pressure load. 3.2 Lying about Due to various reasons do not want to share their feelings with others. Some fear that too many people know that their child’s illness with a special vision to see yourself, so friends and relatives around the choice to hide, then you reduce the channel to vent their emotions. 4 Uncertainty Treatment process, due to the lack of medical knowledge, can sometimes be confused, worried that the treatment effect, this study found that this group of unmarried young cancer patient’s parents, when their children receiving treatment in hospital, due to lack of medical knowledge, and this the characteristics of the disease, causing them to produce therapeutic effects of uncertainty surrounding shrouded in the shadows of the disease, there is no sense of security. 4.1 Worry about healing Due to the low cure rate of malignant tumor, they’re more attention to treatment effect, so will often will be concerned about how it works. 4.2 Children’s emotions Some respondents said they worried about their children’s emotional changes will be conducive to treatment 5 Death attitude All respondents were asked if when the topic of children dying on a total of three kinds of attitude:5.1 To escape death topic Interviews found three mother deliberately to avoid the subject, the subject is transferred to other issues. 5.2 Pessimistic Have two mothers is very negative attitude, mentioned in the interview, if a child lives are threatened, they also want to end their life. 5.3 To accept death Interviewer in a father because of facing children leave immediately and choose conforms to local customs handling, he has to arrange for Yin.Conclusion:Psychological experience of parents to take care of the children, the unmarried young malignant tumor patients,can be summarized as five themes, respectively is:1 Negative accept(1)Shock(2)Doubt(3)Denied2 Active treatment(1)All one’s heart and follow the doctor’s instructions(2)The active treatment, do not regret3 Alone bear the psychological pressure(1)Unable to communicate effectively(2) lying about4 The sense of uncertainty(1) worry about healing(2) children’s emotions5 Death attitude(1)To escape death topic(2)Pessimistic(3)To accept deathIn the biological- psychology- social medical model concept, hope the results of this study found that parents of unmarried young malignant tumor patients to provide theoretical reference basis for the establishment of psychological nursing measures, and develop nursing personnel to the understanding of this special group, and can better understanding of their inner world of thoughts and feelings.