| Studies that have addressed same-sex parented families have explored their basic competencies, the effects of social alienation, and the emotional and psychosexual outcomes for their children (Armesto, 2002, Crawford, McLeod, Zamboni, & Jordan, 1999; Green, 1996; Patterson, 1994; Slater & Mencher, 1991). Researchers have commented that these studies make comparisons with heterosexually oriented families, neglecting the unique and varied experiences associated with gay culture (c.f., Clarke, 2000). Current literature on gay and lesbian headed families reveals a limited number of studies focusing on resiliency and healthy coping (Malley & Tasker, 1999; Matthews & Lease, 2000; Oswald, 2002; Patterson, 2002). Unlike most studies and their focus upon problematic functioning for these non-traditional families, this exploratory study examined their distinctive understandings surrounding family identity and experiences of challenge and resiliency. Findings revealed nine themes for these participating families. These included Visibility, Togetherness, Family Rituals, Outing Process, Gender Roles or Gender Expression, Creating Community, Safety and Protection, Teaching and Learning, and Relational Resiliencies and Strengths. These families showed considerable appreciation for their relational connections and shared a number of effective coping strategies. Recommendations for researchers and psychotherapists are discussed. |
