Talent,Appearance,Loyal And Steadfast

In traditional civilization of our country, as for men and women some built-in models were written, such as "the man is able and the woman is beautiful " and "the woman who hasn't talent is virtuous"; and the female who lost her chastity was sternly treated and the male had sexual liberty. These all were the shows of male sex center doctrine actually, and it influenced the literature creation of our country deeply and lastingly. Today the female sex doctrine disseminated in our country from the west, not only the female writers but the male writers had been aroused by it. They had been creating one batch of works that made us finding something fresh and new. This thesis will see through the similarities and difference about the sexual concept by delving into the characters of the male and female's works who had talent or had good-looking or lost their chastity. The appearance of the characters influenced their destiny in novels, and it hinted the male and female's envisagement about the sexual relation. In man's eyes, the ideal woman must has beautiful appearance, and the man's outward appearance was not important. And this kind of arrangement showed the male sex self-confidence. In woman's eyes, the ideal man and woman all possessed the beautiful appearance, on the one hand it showed the rising of the female consciousness, on the other hand it showed that they lacked confidence for the female sex. Man and woman all consider it important that a man had talent. The male were self-confident or conceited for their talent, but the female only considered it an essential prerequisite if a man was excellent. And the female's ability was faced squarely today, there were many female characters who had ability in the male and female's novels. The male and female writers revealed the women's helplessness and sadness, but their purpose was different. The former revealed the callous social reality, and the latter expressed the female's ideal that they hope to gain one side which is bright and clear and freely. Women has entered into the society which had belonged to men in one time. It was impossible already that superman uphold the life. Working in the society which is complicated and ruthless, man and woman all must paid very bigenergy and painstaking, and the conflict between wife and husband was inevitable, so promoting mutual understanding was very important. It wasn't necessary that some radical feminist consider the conflict between husband and wife as the combat between men and women. Sex was a very naturally originally, however for a long time, it was existed in life and the mentality of people with the unnatural state, and this also influenced the literature at the same time certainly. Showing in literature was refusing to say anything about it or adding great criticism. This phenomenon was changed today. Now " the sex" began to come on the stage in literature. The woman's sexual behavior outward marriage in the female's novels had two kinds of explanations: for libido or for the innermost feeling. The most universal explanation about the man's sexual behavior outward marriage was regarding it the way of life in the male's novels. But in the female's novels, the male characters who lost their chastity were laughable and sad and hateful; in the man's novels, the explanation of the woman's sexual behavior outward marriage was also completely not as with the explanation that came from the female. The women who freed themselves from the long-term sexual suppression manifested some idealizations. Perhaps the sight of male writers looked more reasonable. They understood: not only the male's but also the female's sexual behavior outside the wed would give rise to the odious consequence. The understanding and pity concerned the female's sexual behavior out the wed in the male's novels was a good signal as for the realization of harmonious aspect between men and women. The ultimate objective to solve the sexual relations should be the harmoniousness of both sexes, and should not substitute this kind...