Modern Society Filial Piety Dilemma And Reconstruction

Family daily life is full of mutual aid and attaching, showing the emotional colors, etc. the father (mother) is filial child among the family members of the emotional interaction and mutual reflect in life, social life also cannot leave the emotion exchange and comfort. Filial piety root in the most basic and the most natural blood affection, admittedly, filial piety is biological evolution and social adults to the results of the edification of the culture. Therefore, cultivate emotion and appropriate action should be family began. It is said that china has entered the aging social,family endowment still occupies an important position. Our country's national strength and national conditions is also not enough to support social endowment. Since generated after filial piety constantly adapt to the society changed, People to be filled with the knowledge of filial piety puzzled about really life. Therefore, the research of filial piety is to explore the traditional filial piety spirit for the modern social endowment service.Life care and emotional comfort of traditional filial piety make people long for. The beloved spirit of Traditional filial piety is consistent. Respecting the filial piety spirit to make traditional ethics and family virtue that merged, however, traditional filial piety had some hypocrisy, oppression and destruction to human nature. Therefore, inherit the traditional filial piety culture, deal with the meaning of traditional filial piety, and fully realize the traditional filial piety to modern society of the dual role. The change of filial piety is to adapt to the changes of family structure and society. But, which filial piety will suitable the situation that changed or are changing family structure now? To explore the meaning of the filial piety is the meanings in this paper. Contains love spirit modern filial piety to endowment responsibility should reflect."Love to oneself and make self succeed" gratitude consciousness, also should reflect modern filial piety the independent spirit of the people.Social transformation is also thought and culture transformation. Produced in the agricultural society of filial piety,in addition to the social system change produced the predicament,due to the change of the family structure, family members flow and variety values of the reasons, filial piety in the modern society face much difficulties. The toil and giving of parents do not recognize by their children, because of children's indifference. So there are little identity and acknowledging between parents and children. There is also requires much supporting and caring for seniors well-being in one-child family. Furthermore, as is well know, caring about physical and spiritual makes children hard to support. The fracture of intergenerational emotion recognition partly is because that different generational family member lives different locality,so supporting the old become difficulty. The lonely old men in empty nest family also require physical and spiritual care, to meet the demand of this group is especially difficult. Filial piety is suit of supporting older living in Modern society life, but the past negative for filial piety caused hard cognitive and poor perception in people's harts.Feeling confuse about that what is filial piety, difficult filial piety because of mobility of population making, the internal conflict values between generation, the lag of social security, and the low level of management and so on, so many kinds of factors weaves tighter caused the modern social filial piety much difficulties.The purpose of analyzing the dilemma and the reason that the dilemma produced of filial piety is to rebuild for modern life new filial piety. Reconstruction modern filial piety, we shall be based on the principle of filial piety emotion, and supported the old with respect heart. Moreover, equality and mutual benefit and self-discipline are also the construction of filial piety indispensable principles. Social pension insurance system is provided environment protection to provide filial,and strengthen the cultivation of the filial piety is feasible way.