The Research On Friendly Values Current Situation And Cultivating Countermeasures Of University Students

Friendly concept is a point of view about people how to deal with nature, others and themselves. It also means the harmony between man and nature, man and others, man and their own. Specifically, the important content of Friendly concept include protecting the environment and ecology, cherishing other life in the nature, treating family members, relatives and friends, lovers and strangers well, caring heart, life, health and future. Friendly concept is based on Marx’s theory about the essence of man, inherits and carries forward the essence of Chinese traditional culture of "benevolence", and draws lessons from the useful content of the western equality and fraternity thought. It is a friendly view that keep fine tradition, keep pace with the times and into the era characteristic. Developing friendly concept and practicing friendly behavior need to insist on the dialectical objective principles, avoiding backfire and bring harm to others and the society; Also need to adhere to grasp a degree, in case of these two extremes of selfish and lose yourself; Need to distinguish objects, distinguish between friends and enemies, maintaining the socialist moral bottom line.The author through the investigation and study found that the friendly view of the Contemporary university students overall is good, but some university students have no consciousness of protecting the environment and the ecological, destruction of nature behavior happen occasionally; Be not harmonious with family members, the relationship with relatives and friends is distant, treat personal feelings randomly, treat strangers indifferently; The consciousness of return to self heart is missing, the consciousness of revering life is lack of, the future goals are fuzzy etc. There are many causes explaining these problems of contemporary university students’ friendly view, mainly divided into the internal cause and external cause. Due to the side, the concept of university students to improve their moral cultivation and to cultivate friendly consciousness is not strong, mainly manifested in the understanding of the quality of life is wrong, a lack of respect and tolerance to others,The lack of the consciousness of protecting the environment, etc. In terms of external cause, it mainly includes that the laws and systems about friendly view in China is not perfect, community friendly culture is missing, the friendly view education in school exists some shortage, the influence of peer groups, the friendly view education of family does not reach the designated position and even is missing, etc. To solve the problems of friendly view appearing in the contemporary university students, shaping university students’ friendly view, need to work out the feasibility of targeted cultivating measures from its problems. Such as encouraging the kind of laws and systems; Building friendly communities; Improving the friendly view education of colleges and universities, and to build friendly campus; Guiding the peer groups to pursue the value standards of unique but positive and healthy; Parents precept, forming a friendly family trait, etc. Especially the contemporary university students should make their own efforts to develop friendly values. Such as cherish life, and pursue the quality of life itself; Respect for others, it’s a friendly way to get along; Love nature, pay attention to the harmonious co-prosperity between the human and the nature.