| In addition to exploring the relationship between man and woman, in his novels Lawrence also significantly turned his eyes into the relationship between man and man. The relationship between man and man here is relative with the relationship between men and women, and implies the tendency of obsession and love. This paper analyze the sadomasochism, deep emotions and the male homosexuality of the captain and the orderly in The Prussian Officer, the triangle emotional entanglements of Birkin, Gerrard and Ursula and the male alliance of Birkin and Gerrard in Women in love, and the relationship of attracting and being attracted between the spiritual leaders and the cult followers in three Leaders Novels(The Man Runaway,Kangaroo,Plumed serpent). Lawrence believes that the male alliance can oppose the repression of women to men and get a complete male ego. This is Lawrence' consideration and solution about the authority and status of the male and Lawrence himself in the family, marriage relations and in the social life.This paper is divided into four parts, Introduction raises question, arranges the related research and points out the research content and research significance. The second part combs the concept of the male ego integrity, and highlights the first meaning of ego integrity is ego independence, the second is harmony between ego and others and the environment. And probes into the realization ways of male ego integrity. The third part goes deep into Lawrence's three main novels, analyzes the characterization and evolution of the relationship between man and man:from gay tend to the pattern of triangle marriage, again to the worship to the male spiritual leader. The fourth part trys to find the Lawrence's internal and external causes for the relationship between man and man. And the imbalance of the personal growth experience and the social reality result in the purpose of balance and integrity of the male ego image. |