| Family is the basic cell of society and the first school of life.The moral quality of millions of families directly affects the construction of socialist spiritual civilization.Since the eighteen Party Congress,the Central Committee with Comrade Xi Jinping at the core has focused on family and family education,and stressed the importance of family tradition.At the same time,The socialist core values are the theoretical thoughts of the times and science,which need to be refined,small and implemented in people’s life.The new trend of family civilization still needs the value guidance of socialist core values.The construction of contemporary family style is conducive to strengthening the integrity of Party style,government style and social style.Therefore,in the construction of socialism with Chinese characteristics and spiritual civilization,the status and role of good family style can not be ignored.Good family style is a good style formed in the family under the guidance of mainstream social values,which is used to regulate and restrict family members,and has a subtle impact on family members.Family members grow up in a certain family environment and are virtually influenced by family style,which can form a deep and lasting personal moral quality and quality.The Chinese nation has always attached importance to the family.On the basis of social economy,politics and philosophy at that time,the ancient sages put forward and established a traditional fine family style,including the self-cultivation of morality,erudition and diligence,self-discipline and humility,and the unity of knowledge and practice;The family concept of harmony between husband and wife,benevolence and filial piety,diligence and thrift,and inheritance of ambition and family;The social warmth of valuing righteousness over profit,being sincere,knowing things and principles,and respecting teachers;The family and country consciousness of abiding by the law,sharing happiness with the people,isomorphism of family and country and great harmony in the world.With the development of society,the family structure and family form have changed.With the change of society,the traditional good family style also needs continuous development and construction.Here,the ancient words "tailor to measure" and "tailor to suit" are used to describe the law of the development and change of family style in the innovation."Body" refers to the economic state,social structure,mainstream values and value orientation of society;"Sample" refers to the theoretical source in the construction of new family style,including the practical summary of traditional good family style,Marxist family theory and red family style;"Clothes" refers to the new family style.The "sample" selected by the construction of family style must be tested,screened and sublated by the "body" of reality,so as to realize the perfect combination of "clothing" and "body".As the common core value concept of the contemporary Chinese nation,socialist core values are condensed and put forward by the Party Central Committee according to objective laws under the background of market economy and social structure differentiation.The socialist core values are a kind of ideology with dynamic reaction,which can play a role of value guidance and practice orientation in the practice of contemporary family style construction.In the construction of contemporary family style,we need to shape the contemporary family style in line with the development of socialism with Chinese characteristics from the perspective of socialist core values.After the market economy has been developed deeply,the social foundation of contemporary China has changed,and family education is facing new problems in the new social environment.The loss of the concept of justice and benefit,the imbalance of public morality and private morality,and the prevalence of hedonism have influenced the family to form a positive upward and good family style,and the contemporary family style is becoming more and more prominent.In addition,the need of governing the country is also calling for the construction of contemporary good family style.The construction of family style is also an important part of the style construction of leading cadres.The contemporary domestic style construction requires leaders at all levels to strictly require their children and to be close to each other.It is required to use Marxist standpoint.The sources of contemporary family style construction include traditional fine family style,Marxist family theory,Mao Zedong Thought and the discussion on personal quality and family in the theoretical system of socialism with Chinese characteristics.The construction of contemporary family style should take socialist core values as the leading factor,parents take the example,Party members and cadres play a leading role in model,so that family members can be exposed and imperceptibly transformed into excellent values,positive outlook on life and correct world outlook in the critical youth period,and transform the core values into the family members’ understanding of the world and the world transformation in real life The practical power of "internalizing in the heart and externalizing in the line" promotes the individual to realize the goal of life value and happiness,and then promotes the "wind and clean spirit" of social atmosphere such as Party style and political style.The construction of contemporary family style based on traditional excellent family style can show the Chinese characteristics and Chinese characteristics of contemporary family style construction.The ultimate goal is to achieve the happiness goal and value pursuit of individuals and families in the contemporary era;guided by Marxist family view,the construction of contemporary family style can be pointed out,and it aims at the realization of the overall development of human beings.The most important part of family education is moral education.Good family style can promote the development of personal and family morality,quality and virtue,and shape personal professional quality and social morality.Therefore,we should build contemporary family style from the four levels of personal morality,family morality,professional morality and social morality.The contemporary family style should cultivate the personal morality of patriotism and dedication,clear etiquette and compliance,diligence and kindness,motivation and diligence,self-discipline and self-improvement;We should cultivate the family virtues of respecting the old and loving the young,equality between men and women,harmony between husband and wife,diligence and thrift,and neighborhood mutual assistance;We should cultivate professional ethics of love and dedication,honesty and trustworthiness,impartiality,unity,friendliness,generosity and humility;We should cultivate social morality of helping others,caring for public property,protecting the environment,having the courage to take responsibility and giving priority to the collective.The contemporary family style construction takes the socialist core values as the starting point and foothold.It combines the moral ideas of China’s traditional fine family traditions,Marx’s family and moral theories,the practice of red family tradition and the moral essence of the collective leadership of the past dynasties,so as to achieve unity of the whole construction with individual,unity and freedom.The contemporary Chinese style of unity of cooperation and independence.To carry out the construction of contemporary Chinese family style from the perspective of socialist core values,we should take the socialist core values as the guide of contemporary family style construction,clarify the goal orientation of contemporary Chinese family style construction,and emphasize the promotion of contemporary citizen construction,social responsibility construction and sound personality construction with socialist core values;Constructing a practical guide for the construction of contemporary Chinese family style,emphasizing the people’s subject thought,the thought of seeking common ground in differences and the way of people’s identity in the construction of contemporary family style;Condense the main force of contemporary Chinese family style construction,and promote the construction through the words and deeds of family subjects,the demonstration and guidance of Party members and cadres,and the coordinated promotion of school media;Improve the mechanism guarantee for the construction of contemporary Chinese family style,and ensure that the construction of contemporary family style from the perspective of socialist core values has achieved good results through dynamic mechanism,incentive mechanism and evaluation mechanism.Mobilize all sectors of society to participate in the construction of family style,promote the development of family civilization,strive to make every family an important basis for national development,national progress and social harmony,integrate the realization of personal dream and family dream into national dream and national dream,and integrate the great power of building a socialist modern country in an all-round way and realizing the Chinese dream of great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation. |