Friendly Values ??foster Research

Friendshipis not only the wealth of human civilization,but also thetraditional morality of the Chinese nation.Friendship has been promoted to be an important part of the core socialist values by the 18th CPC National Congress.Under the current environment,how to cultivate and practice friendly values will be the most important task in in the implementation of socialist core values.The research on the cultivation of friendly values,on the one hand,improves the theory the socialist core values on the individual level and deepens the theoretical system of socialist moral construction;on the other hand,contributes to the social psychological contradictions,the improvement of social atmosphere and the construction of social mutual trust system to create favorable conditions to enhance social harmony.The study insists on using Marxism as a guide to follow the ideas of history and logic,theory and reality,and adopt methods such as literature analysis,historical induction and empirical methods to discuss the concepts,contents,realistic requirements and basic principles of the friendly values.For the analysis of the concept of friendly,this paper,with the communication form of the main activities as clues of study,has sorted out two different concepts of friendship ideas in China and the West.China's friendshipthoughthas turned inside out,from the ancient introverted appeal to modern extroversion.Such trend of change is still there.Western friendship thought has been the interaction between human and God,changing from the virtue of human in the polis to the medieval divinity of God.The discovery of human by the Renaissance has brought friendship from the heaven into human's world,with utilitarian and contract as the companionsof friendship.In general,friendshipthoughts change as people's relationships change.Friendship values have naturally formed and developed in people's communications,and gradually transformed from the direct need to the indirect norms of communication.The values of friendshiphave been gradually expanded in the practice of human communication,including rich contentssuch asbeing friendly to ourselves,to others and to nature.From the perspective of history and reality,the cultivation of friendship values is not only the realistic need of individual communication,but also the urgent requirement of social development.The basic principle of the cultivation of friendship values is the combination of theoretical cultivation and practice cultivation,social cultivation and self-cultivation,and the spirit of the times and the spirit of the nation.According to the realistic requirements and the basic principle of friendly values,combined with the main contents of friendship values,there are three main ways to cultivate friendship values:firstly,to learn the knowledge of friendship,determined to be friendly,to implement friendship,not to forget to have self-examination of friendship missing andbeing friendly to ourselves;secondly,to maintain a friendly culture,to protect the friendshipwith the rule of law,meanwhile,to make mutual support between people,to agree to be friendly and being friendly to others in common;thirdly,to reflect on anthropocentrism,ecological centralism,to be harmonious with everything in nature including rivers and lakes,birds and animals,so that to be friendly to nature.As for the cultivation of friendship values,it still has a long way to go.It is not a temporary work but a long-term systematic project.The research of friendship values also need to keep pace with the times.Only by connectingthe history,viewing the reality,staying true to the original mission,and being persistent will friendship values be deeply rooted in the hearts of the people,and ultimately transform into a friendly behavior.