The Choice Of Emotional Adjustment Strategies In Conflict Situation Impact On Relationship Quality

Emotional frustration has become one of the reasons for college students to commit suicide in recent years.It is of great significance to study intimate relationship and explore the influencing mechanism of intimate relationship satisfaction for rationally understanding intimate relationship and effectively improving intimate relationship satisfaction.Based on this,this study,combined with the conflict reality of intimate relationship,discusses the mediating mechanism between emotional regulation and conflict coping style from the perspective of emotional regulation and conflict coping style.In study 1,we created conflict situations by means of actual interactions between couples.28 pairs of subjects were randomly assigned to one of the two adjustment strategies,and one of them was asked to use this adjustment strategy during the interaction.Before and after the interaction,the positive and negative emotion scale and the intimate relationship satisfaction scale were used to measure the emotional experience and intimate relationship satisfaction of both partners respectively,and to explore the impact of different emotional regulation strategies on intimate relationship in conflict situations.On the basis of study one,the internal mechanism of the influence of emotion regulation strategy on intimate relationship satisfaction was further explored.In study two,the mediating mechanism of conflict coping style between emotion regulation strategy and intimate relationship satisfaction was explored by questionnaire.Emotion regulation strategy questionnaire,conflict coping style scale and intimate relationship satisfaction scale were used to measure 100 couples.This study draws the following conclusions:(1)there is a significant positive correlation between cognitive reappraisal and intimate relationship satisfaction,and a significant negative correlation between expression inhibition and intimate relationship satisfaction.(2)there is a significant positive correlation between conflict coping style and intimacy satisfaction,and a significant negative correlation between conflict coping style and intimacy satisfaction.(3)cognitive reappraisal has a significant negative correlation with the departure and neglect of conflict coping style,and a significant positive correlation with the discussion of conflict coping style.Expression inhibition has a significant negative correlation with the discussion and loyalty of conflict coping style,and has a significant positive predictive effect on the discussion.(4)conflict coping style departure,neglect and discussion play a partial mediating role in the use frequency of emotion regulation strategies and intimate relationship satisfaction.