Family Ethics Education Thought In "The Motto Of Family Management" Modern Value Research

Family Maxims is a famous family motto,which was written by Zhu bolu.He is a famous Neo-confucianist and educator.Zhu bolu brings together wisdom in a short aphorism.In this aphorism,It contains the Confucian culture of self-cultivation,family,governance.It is profound and thought-provoking.It has important reference significance in modern family education.This paper takes Family Maxims as the research object,and tries to comb and grasp the content and method of Zhu bolu's family ethics education deeply,so as to absorb its important value.Family Maxims was produced under the specific background of The Times.It takes the traditional Confucian ethical spirit as its ideological basis.In terms of family ethics education,Family Maxims strongly praise thrift,loyalty,family harmony,and self-discipline.Among them,the core content of family ethics is diligence,frugality and loyalty.On the basis of diligence and frugality,Zhu bolu educated descendants to have the ethics of family harmony.He puts forward the way of choosing a husband and wife,and family members should help and tolerate each other to reduce conflicts and disputes.In addition,Zhu bolu stressed self-discipline.He required family members to do some things.For example: introspection every day;Self-restraint;Obey the rules and obey the times;Study and cultivate one's morality;Don't be jealous or gloat.In dealing with people,Zhu bolu asked to do the following: impartial,moderate;Be careful in making friends,speak little and do little;Cultivate the heart from goodness,love to help others;Poverty and happiness,rich and gift.Family Maxims contains the essence of the essence of the moral education thought of Confucianism in a short and concise length,among which many family ethics education contents are still of great value to modern family education.However,due to the limitations of the cognitive level,time condition and social system at that time,they still have some old and conservative ideas.Therefore,we need to treat them with discrimination,select the essence and discard the dress.