We're In This Together: A Phenomenological Exploration of the Decision-Making Process and Relational Dynamics of Lesbian Couples Planning for Conception

In recent years, the incidence of lesbian couples planning for conception has greatly increased. In order to achieve their goals of pregnancy and childbirth, lesbian couples must invest considerable time and energy in the process of planning for conception. A number of important decisions must be made including the selection of a donor and the definition of his role, the means of insemination, and the designation of one member of the couple for biological motherhood. Because lesbian couples face unique challenges when planning for conception, support during the decision-making period is critical. While some aspects of couples' decision-making have been addressed in the literature, little is known about women's lived experiences of making these important decisions. This study involved semi-structured interviews with seven lesbian couples. The interviews were analyzed using the phenomenological method and Consensual Qualitative Research (CQR). The results of this study may be used to inform medical and mental health professionals who are in a position to offer support tailored to the needs of lesbian couples who are negotiating conception.