College Students' Ethical Problems Of Love And Its Countermeasure

Everyone is bound to be encountered several major turning point in his life. Love and marriage are the key affair in our lives and also can make a difference to life.College students are at puberty. With the physical maturity and psychological development, they, who have come to their age of love, desire for a great love and pursuit it with great passion. They desperately want to have a date with the opposite sex. One's attitudes and concepts about love and marriage, as well as the ability of get along with the opposite sex, often come into being and are developed at University. Love often germinates at this stage.College students are in the age of maturing of life outlook and world outlook, which makes them short of full understanding of marriage. And nowadays, the college students who are in love are easy to be affected by the present social environment. Thus, when college students are falling in love, they can't be avoid of facing some puzzles and problems, and even some students misunderstand love affairs. The problems of love of college students usually involve the following aspects: the aspect of relationship between love and marriage, the aspect of relationship between love and study, the aspect of the relationship between love and sex, and the aspect of motives of love, these questions often puzzle college students and affect their study, life, their personality development and healthy growth. And, if these problems and puzzles can not be resolved in time, they will generate some serious negative effects and hider healthy growth of college students. The survey and analysis indicates, when college students are facing these puzzles and problems, they often have some choice of wrong behavior, and looking from the moral angle, they are mainly the shortage of ideal, responsibility, and impure motivation of love.The problems of love for college students, combined with the implication of ethical problems, not only will hinder the students' exploring their potential, their growth of talent and the eventual formation of good character, but also directly influence the building process of the future of China's socialism with Chinese characteristics. Therefore, some guidance about love should be given to the college students. It is the need of the development of physical and mental health of college students, and the aim of the quality education, and moreover, a specific expression of humanistic concern about college students. Against these problems, we should strengthen the education of students' ideals and believes, guide them to establish a correct view of love. We should also train them in dealing with issues related to love and cultivate their virtue in various ways.