The New Phenonmenon And Valves In Rural Youth Dating Life

In the countryside, the youth is the main force of the new rural construction, is themost progressive, creative groups; In the cities, young migrant workers around the country,play an important role in architecture, services and other industries. Rural youth marriagelife, however, there is "early marriage","flash marriage","fast" and so on, to a large extentaffects the rural youth marriage life, affect or even destroy the young rural family harmonyand stability. Therefore,there is great importance.to explore new phenomenon in the currentour country rural youth marriage life,and analysis the rural youth.Rural youth marriage life, is permeated with strong flavor of traditional marriagecustoms, and with bright city dating colour, show the dual characteristics of traditional andmodern organic combination. In current rural youth dating life all sorts of newphenomenon, it fully illustrates this point. Contemporary rural youth, mating behaviorreflects their own choice, emphasis on personal subjective feeling and each other’s personalconditions, mating results tend to democracy, rationalization; In the process of marriage, onthe one hand, the rural youth dating costs soar, brought heavy economic burden to somerural families. Dating of rural youth, on the other hand, the consumption structure changegreatly, shows the tradition from consumption primarily to modern wedding project ofhigh-speed shift; On reproductive choice, the state promulgated and implemented the onechild policy began to dominate the fertility behavior of rural youth,"have fewer, eugenics,good example" concept gradually into the conscious choice of rural youth, youth of the twochildren family accounts for more than half the proportion of rural households, the numberof one-child family also increased rapidly; At the same time, the relationship of rural youthalso present a new state, on the status of husband and wife toward equality, emphasized inthe process of family decision consultation, communication, claims, and in the face ofproblems.Forward to see, the countryside youth dating the emergence of various newphenomena in life, is the rural youth marriage values dominate the rural youth datingbehavior result of rural youth has a guide on the marriage behavior with the opinions aboutlove, standard, guidance, and so on. Rural youth in criteria value personal factors,emphasized in mate selection decision, to be your own boss will make the rural youthshklovsky trend of mating behavior; On the concept of marriage, on the one hand, part ofthe rural youth emphasizes the high amount of bride price and luxurious wedding banquet,lead to the bride price amount in rural areas and the wedding costs rising; On the otherhand, the majority of the rural youth in the housing of marriage and wedding banquet heldrational attitude, and in rural areas was relatively positive and reasonable marriage fresh air, and dominated the rural youth dating behavior; In addition, the rural youth is generally infavor of the country all the policies and regulations about fertility problems, and to all thepolicies and regulations will be internalized in their daily behavior choice, the rural areas"have fewer, eugenics, good example" phenomenon of widespread; Finally, thephenomenon of divorce and remarriage, rural areas and rural youth in problem such asdivorce, remarriage, open-minded, tolerant attitude held by rest related, and the rural youthto build a harmonious, equal relationship between husband and wife, is the rural youthpursuit marriage equality, freedom, and harmony of the final result.Looked at in reverse, the occurrence and development of new rural youth dating lifephenomenon, promotes the change of the rural youth marriage values directly. Specificview, the emergence of new rural youth dating life phenomenon, on the changes of therural youth marriage values basically has the following two points. First, all kinds of newrural youth dating life phenomenon increasingly generalization process led to a shift withthe rural youth opinions about love in the process of "peer influence" effect, promote thepopularization of rural youth in the current mainstream dating values process; Second, thenew phenomenon in the rural youth dating life contributed to the revolutionarytransformation-with their opinions about love from "passive accept" to "active adaptation",enhances the independent consciousness in the process of rural youth in the marriagedecision.Mainstream values under the influence of love and marriage in the rural areas, therural youth increasingly rationalization dating behavior, for example, the rural youthchoose remarried in pursuit of a lifetime of happiness, in order to let children get bettercare and choose to have fewer, eugenics, and so on. However, a few rural youth, with stillhold a relatively passive, radical opinions about love and to a certain extent, to give theirmarriage adverse impact on life, the formation of a good impedes the rural marriagecustom. To this, must use the system of socialist core values guide the rural youth, attachesgreat importance to the rural youth marriage legal knowledge education, to carry out thediversified examination policy propaganda activities, ensure that rural youth towardsrationalization, scientific development with the opinions about love.