The Loss Of The Old Man’s Social Support Research

Loss alone old man as "victim" of family planning system, is gradually into the public view and the network about the loss of the old man alone or emotional reality programs are also increasing. Loneliness, helplessness, sorrow, despair, is not only a true portrayal of the loss of group alone,but also their pronoun.They were born in the fifties and sixties of the last century, more positive response to the country’s family planning policy, formed the most basic family of three, the simple family structure, because of the only children, there is already a certain risk, once the one-child suffer accidents and death, the family will be heavily damaged, and even become fragmented, which evolved into the so-called lost family, loss of parents of the family alone became the old man.In our country, the number of the loss old man alone is to curb the trend of increasing, and gradually formed a large group, and they lost their only child, facing the future life issues, economic problems, pension, medical isuess and even psychological and mental problems, they will be closed up and out of normal social network, and gradually being marginalized, their physiological needs, security needs and the demand of belonging and love has yet to be met.Facing the situation of the loss of the old man alone, the formal support system composed of government,community,volunteers give their some support and help within the scope of their own abilities; Lost old man alone group established a homogeneous organization helping each other, relatives and friends give them care in daily life, the informal support system made up of them is also varying degrees of help and service for the loss of the old man alone.But in support for the loss of the old man alone, because of the lack of correct cognition to them, so as to ignore their real needs, leading to a subject social support provided by the supporter deviating from the requirements of rail, caused the imbalance of supply and demand in reality.How to effectively supporting loss alone old man? How to meet their real needs? How to provide reliable social support for them? How to build system of social support system for lost old man alone? These issues are still worth exploring.This paper is based on the demand and supply, in the perspective of social support theory, through the analysis of the old man alone physiological needs, security needs and requirements of belonging and love, to correctly understand the realistic requirement of old man alone.From the government, communities, volunteers lost alone old man officially support system and by the loss of community self-organization alone, alone the old man’s intimate relationship of informal support system to discuss the two aspects of its to provide support for lost old man alone, and comparing the provided support and loss alone the old man’s reality to analyze the imbalance between supply and demand,as well as the problems of social support between subject and object, on the basis of exploring its supply and demand balance, to find out the relevant countermeasures and paths.