Give And Receive:Matching With The Exchange Of Rural Cadastral University Graduates Choose A Spouse

Family is meet the demand of physiology, material and spirit of the place, marriage is not always a relaxed, purely individual free choice, because it is related to the career prospects of the parties and family reputation, and is related to family happiness and social harmonious stability. Rural cadastral college graduates as a special group in the marriage market, different from that of other groups in the process of how the choices of partner made by practice.The author through to the rural cadastral university graduates of questionnaire and case interview tries to analysis the rural cadastral the whole process of the mating of college graduates, and seeking the sociological explanation for this process. This paper first reviews the western research on the problem of mating Gui and hoping put forward in this article from the theoretical perspective of selection: marriage market theory. Next to the rural cadastral college graduates choose a spouse standard, mating methods, mate choice marriage resource matching and exchanges, and in the process of rural cadastral university graduate status in the marriage market influence factors are analyzed. Grind Gui results show that:First, on the criteria for the rural cadastral university graduates by the rural community traditional culture, the influence of the higher education experience and short of city life, they follow the traditional "male big female small" "male female low" high standards, on the other hand, the spouse is expected to resources to be "complementary" in the marriage, marriage is used to break the class curing, realizes the social class "upward mobility", to choose a spouse has high expectations and requirements.Second, on how rural cadastral university graduates by men and women ratio imbalance of social background and low social capital itself, the influence of mate selection range is limited; The limited scope of mating makes them more from the more familiar "students circle" choose their mates.Third, resource matching and exchange in marriage, rural cadastral university graduates did not like the ideal "complementary" marriage resources, is more of a "suitable" similar marriage match. Higher education brings high-cultural capital in a certain range for the rural cadastral graduates ideal marriage resources, in comparison, the sexes of highly educated men are in the marriage market recognition than women.Fourth, the influence factors of status in the marriage market, at the same time by the gender imbalance of social background, the rural cadastral represented by the low economy and the influence of social capital and rural traditional marriage culture, restrict the rural cadastral mating market scope of university graduates, reduces its status in the marriage market, is being squeezed from the marriage market, make its have had to lower standards in the process of mate selection, the final balance in both the male and the female marriage resources concluded on the basis of marriage.Combining with the results of this article, the author tries to from the perspective of marriage market the mating process of rural cadastral college graduates make the following interpretation: gender imbalance of social background in the marriage market supply; Marketization of social background to make the rural cadastral college graduates pay more attention to material on the mating preferences; Low social capital status of rural cadastral university graduates in the marriage market, high-cultural capital has played a certain role in marriage resource exchange, but has not yet been fully recognized, eventually marriage matching results tend to match at the same level.