Research On The Phenomenon Of Moral Kidnapping In The Family Environment

In public life,the behavior of "moral kidnapping often appears in our field of view,and people always discuss some moral kidnapping events such as "forcing donations".Compared with moral kidnapping in general,the family,as a basic unit of society,the moral kidnapping behavior and the conflicts of family ethics behind the behavior are also worthy of our exploration.It's undeniable that in this common and very special environment of the family,the harm of moral kidnapping is hidden and far-reaching,and deserves more attention.Theoretically and conceptually,the definition of moral kidnapping in the family environment is not much different from the moral kidnapping in general sense,and both refer to "in the name of moral goodness,using one's own identity and authority,daily ethical order,or public opinion pressure to coerce other people to perform a certain behavior,or to suspend a certain behavior that conflicts with morality".However,in terms of expression,relatively speaking,it could be concentrated in three aspects:family education conflicts,intergenerational contradictions,and disharmony between the sexes.In addition,it also has characteristics of binding,weak coercion and strong individuality.Further,this situation has occurred not only due to the negative influence of traditional family ethics,but also the role of“assistant" in the real social moral environment,and the ethical conflict of the family itself,as well as the imcomplete ethics of family members.There will be many realistic social factors,such as the increasingly tense relationship between the sexes,but in the family environment,the relationship between husband and wife will be more directional and concrete.In the current era,on the one hand,there are rapid social development,dramatic changes in female productivity,and multiple symbiosis of ethics and morality.On the other hand,because of the outdated family ethics,moral anxiety has emerged.The unconscious moral kidnapping has infringed on the rights and interests of many family members,especially the disadvantaged,and even caused young people to fear and reject family relations and marital relations.In addition to the expression of emotions,it is necessary to start from the source and analyze the path to eliminate the phenomenon of moral kidnapping.Treat traditional ethics with an open and critical attitude,and put a new meaning of the times into traditional ethics.Creating a nice social moral environment,including the construction of a society ruled by law,guiding education to clarify moral boundaries,and regulating the media 's public opinion,all of them have great significance.Within the family environment,every family members should be deeply reflective of the ethical relationship,focusing on personal development as well as the nature of family care and responsibility.All in all,the research on this topic helps individuals and families to improve their happiness index,and it also encourages equality,openness,and clear moral ethics,to a large extent helps to coordinate social relations,reduces the phenomenon of moral abduction in society,and realizes family authenticity.