The Effects Of Language Used By Parents On Children's Mental Health

During the process of indicidual socialzed, family is the earliest and most important condition. Compared to other animals, human's developing process is longer. Before being independent, there is a long way that human needs parents'feed and guide. So that parets are the most important roles in the process of personal socialzed. The parents transmit the social values and norms to the children through language, urging the individual developed healthly. But parents also can do harm to children's psychological development with the nonchalant spoken language. Therefore, studied about the way how parents'language influence children's mental healthy are very useful.From social psychologycal view, the research studied that the frequency and nature of parents language influnce children's mental healthy to find the relationship between them. So that it can providing theory foundation and research reference on protecting mental health of children.On the basis of considerable review on related researches conducted at home and abroad,442students from senior schools, professional technical institutes and colluges got involved in helping to do the questionnaire which including some self-weaved questions and SCL-90. After that the author analyzed the data with the help of SPSS 15.0 statistics software.After reseach we can concluded:1. parents'positive languages including:respective language, praise language, encouraging language, tolerant language, caring language and guidance. Parents'negative languages including:hegemony, accusation, insult rails, the isolation, the threat and the comparison.2. the frequency of parents'positive languages is negative correlated. Respective language is the most in influential.The frequency of parents'negative languages is positive correlated. And the wild talk oncluded has the most negative influence on the children's mental health.During daily life parents have to encourage more with the respect of children. Of course, sometime parents have to critisize children properly. Try not to force children to obey parents'order as far as possible. Parents have to building harmonious enviroment at home without indifferent isolation words.