A Study On The Hurt Of Single--Mother In The City--Six Case Study

The data used in this paper come form a research depending on methods such as talk participant, which have been carried out from 2004-1-13 to 2004-3-3.Based on the research, such as: divorce marriage's satisfaction the living in the single family. The author think that there are two phases in the process of the hurt of single-mother. The two phases include: first, the dispute before divorce between husband and wife; Second, the living after divorce. The author think the single-mother's hurt represent as the following: 1 The dispute between husband and wife; 2, The divorce which hurt the single-mother include the divorce actions: longtime dispute between husband and wife, single-mother how to deal with the marriage crisis, the flounder and conflict when single-mother choose divorce; 3 Single-mother's intensity frustration, furious and impact after divorce; 4-. How to deal with the relation between single-mother and their child. On this point, author emphasis: the key is not the poverty which always be report or study by media and scholar, but the lack of father, they think they can't remedy the regret, as they said: "We can't substitute father forever", this is the root bring them angst, strain, melancholy; 5 Single-mother is in the inferior position to remarriage, for they consider how to care child better, how to deal with the relation after remarriage, and they consider the age, at the same time, they think their new husband must be better than them in competence, so the can't remarriage easily.Author think: The way to relief lease the hurt of single-mother is tolerance, comprehension and help in society.