Researching On University Students' Home Education

Every family is the cradle of everybody's growth, which is also the first social place when everyone comes to the world to contact. In the family everyone experiences the childhood, the junior and the youth, so through the atmosphere that is created by the family members, the family gives the growth of everyone to an imperceptible influence, which gradually forms the stable views of life, world and value. Dewey believes that "the education is life" and "no education is that we can't live." In his view, the best education is to "learn from life." Therefore, the education is the process of children's living, but not the preparation of the future life. Education is to give children the full guarantee to their growth or living, but not to ask their ages.At present the majority of college students are the single child. When they are little ,they are small emperors and princess of rice to their mouths and clothing to their hands, but now they are growing to the favored people under ivory tower. They were born in the initial stage of Chinese economic development, and enjoyed the material wealth that the reform and opening up brought to. At the same time, the constant influx of cultural diversity and the family's excessive love to the students, which gives a series of challenges to the students' world and value views? After the students enter to university, they are emerging from their parents' control and having a variety of moral, ideological, psychological, behavioral performances, which is to continue to work hard for their own life experiences, and bring the greater wealth for the others, or to stay away from targets such as an unbridled horse, regardless of the feelings of people around, completely living by themselves. This not only reminds us of a Japanese scholar in the beginning of Chinese reform and opening up, having commented that no country in the world's economic took off all to the cost of ethics. Developing with the West, we have a difference of degree nearly a hundred years. We can not and do not have the time to follow the western road to delay the speed to develop. But how to make the direction? This paper points to the current college students' thinking and morality, through the analyses of the college students' family education ,and the research of the historical evolution and the theoretical basis for the college students' family education .Relying on the theoretical basis of family education and the achievement of ways ,and resolving the current exist problem of family alienation of university students, we will be unable to continue their ideological and psychological problems on the second place.This paper is divided into four parts. The preamble lists the positive and negative cases existing in the college students, which leads to the main issues of the paper—family education on college students. The first part has a general analyses to the college students' family education, to make a definition of the college students and the family education, and discuss the general content of family education and its significance and impact .The second part researches the theoretical foundation of Chinese and foreign families of education, and importantly analyze the family education in ancient China, which is an important theory of modern education theory of family origins. At the same time the famous national family education are analyzed, and comparative studying the advantages of foreign family education, which provides a new idea for our research to the college students' family education . The third part proposes the ways to achieve the program, the specific principles, forms and ways of the college students' family education. The fourth part analyzes the alienation problem of the college students' family education and proposes the remedial measures. The closing part analyzes the development of college students' family education.