Practice Relationship View Of Marriage Crisis Of Confidence

The emergence of the marital trust crisis is a common issue in the society. It plays an important role to build a harmonious relationship of marriage and maintain the stability of the community. Based on the interpretation of marital trust, this paper is trying to fulfill some methods to the reconciliation of the crisis.Marriage is a kind of social phenomenon and it takes the gender relations as the core and the reproduce as the basic purpose. Marital trust is the persistent and sustainability in the life that the couples feel in the daily experiences and activities, and then make a reasonable expectation to the environment and the behavior of the husband or wife. They can also fell the sense of security and reliability and a stable psychological and emotional determination between them. Marital trust crisis is a kind of helplessness that is caused by the lack of common value and the stable psychological and emotional interdependent between them. It’s a manifestation of "trust alienation" and a fundamental alienation of the man himself. It is not only the human’s essential requirements but also the nature conditions to get rid of trust alienation and achieve the reconciliation in the marriage.Marriage is a relationship of trust in existence, In essence, It was born within the practice of life. It’s a kind of interactive relationship between them. They keep the interaction in practice. We can find the practical connection in the formation and evolution of the marriage relationship. The interactive structure、life paradigm、normative systems and cultural values trust will make a deep impact on the relationship between the two subjects. The marriage trust crisis shows the internal division of the main border marriage "life world" in this modern industrial society transition.The reconciliation of the trust crisis is a kind of interpersonal contradiction, which is based on the specific circumstances in the practice. The two subjects should face the increasing complex and realistic "atrophy" of the "life world" in the social interaction system. The reconciliation of the marriage trust crisis should root in the " legitimacy" settlement, that is, to return to the nature of life, and create an open "life paradigm" that is based on the integration of " life world" and build the mutual trust environment. Meanwhile, It should root in the conscious of the subjects to achieve the reconciliation. The self-consciousness of the subject will reshape the reason and self-discipline, so as to realize the moral main body personality framework. Rooted in the "legitimacy", each side should love each other to get the deep identity, and then get the value of the soul and spirit. It’s the only way that the two subjects can be the "combines" existence. Therefore, they can discard the marital trust alienation and achieve the real trust in the marriage.