| Under the background of global political and economic integration, especiallysince China carried out the policy of reforming and opening-up, economicconstruction has made significant achievements. Because of economic growth rapidlymakes China’s status rising in the world economy. After80this generation of youthgroups arises at the historic moment. They are the first only-child generation whogrew up with the development of market economy in our country and the reform andopening up. Owing to the rapid development of society and universal application ofInternet in China, after80generation, comparing with the last generation or evenseveral generations, has different characteristics. Especially the after80can get bestembody on the concept of marriage and family. In contemporary China, after80hasbecome the main force of the social construction, the eldest of after80has beenalready thirties years old, the youngest after80has been completed their lifelong eventor sooner or later. Therefore, the study of marriage and family problems about after80appears urgent and necessary. At the same time, to build a happy marriage and familylife for them, maintain social harmony and stability is of great significance.This paper focuses on the reality of after80marriage and family life. With themarriage and family values of Marxism as the theoretical basis of this paper isintended to apply the marriage and family values of Marxism to guide after80, inorder to set up the correct marriage and family values, and reduce the problems in theafter80marriage and family life. First, this paper discusses the concepts and theoriesrelated to this article, to make the object of study and research clearly on the theory ofthis paper. Second, investigates the after80the current situation of marriage andfamily life, to find problems. Again, point out the problems of after80marriage andfamily, for root cause analysis of the causes of these problems. Finally, the paper putsforward the countermeasures to solve the problem of after80marriage and family.Introduced as follows:The first part introduces the relevant concepts of this study. First of all, the after80youth group is defined to make the research main body shape; secondly, this paper discusses the concept of marriage and family. Marriage is the premise to producefamily, and family is the result of the conclusion of the marriage. Marriage and familyrelations formed the particular pattern of social relations; thirdly, this paper discussesthe Marxist marriage and family values. Marxist marriage and family values containsfreedom of marriage and divorce. It is against hasty divorce. At the same time,clarifying the relationship between the family is equality between men and women ofmonogamy and so on; finally, this paper discusses the modern transformation ofChinese traditional marriage and family. According to the division of academia’s thesame method, simply this paper discusses the China before1978and after the obviouschanges of the marriage and family.The second part introduces the present situation of the after80marriage andfamily. First, this paper discusses the material foundation becomes after80importantstandard to choose a spouse, which changed ever people based on love in the loverelationship; secondly, this paper discusses the marriage and family life’s mode ofdiversification in today’s after80; thirdly, this paper discusses the after80procreationconception, compared with the last generation, has huge changes. For example,marriage age is more and more late, and boy or girl is same, and they catch up withthe "separate two children" policy, and so on; fourth, this paper discusses the after80has more open concept in sex; fifth, this paper discusses the after80the equality ofmarriage and family in the housework; sixth, this paper discusses the after80themarriage of autonomous consciousness enhancement, but stability is on the decline.The third part introduces the after80the problems of marriage and family, andthe reasons for these problems. First of all, the after80has obvious utilitarian color inmarriage and family, this is mainly due to attack of the ethos of utility under thecondition of market economy; second, after80open concept in sex triggered a sexualbehavior before marriage and cohabitation, extramarital affairs common problems,such as the causes of these problems are due to open western culture through thenetwork of" wide "spread" fast ", and in the process of the growth of the after80lackof education neutral education system in China; finally, the traditional concept ofgender affects household division of labor’s equality, and such problems can be attributed to "husband""wife" role’s expectation of mismatch.The fourth part introduces that according to after80marriage and familyproblems occurred in the solution countermeasures are put forward. First of all, usingMarxist marriage family values to guide after80setting up the correct marriage andfamily values; second, the effective use of mass media to guide " after80" formhealthy sexual attitudes; third, confess that housework the economic value, and makethe socialization of housework; fourth, pay attention to the law and moral constraintstogether; fifth, after80youth to strengthen their self-cultivation, and raise awarenessof the responsibility of marriage and family. The purpose of this article is through thespecific implementation of these five aspects to solve problems in after80marriageand family, in order to maintain social harmony and stability and realize people’sdevelopment in an all-round way constantly. |