Research And Education Guidance Of College Students’ Love

The view of love, the fundamental understanding and attitude of people to love, is an important component of the philosophy of life. Because of the active mind and rich emotion, love becomes the inevitable trend to university students, namely, falling in love is the indispensable experience of their life. This paper has been studied mainly by adopting literature analysis, comparative study method, questionnaire, comprehensive analysis. More precisely, a questionnaire was conducted among one thousand students from the selected eight universities in Shanxi Province. On the basis of deep analysis and comparison of the questionnaire results, the view of love of contemporary college students has been reflected based on their basic situation, basic attitude, influencing factors, sexual perception and sexual behavior, and then the characteristics of their view of love, like universality, diversity, openness and vulnerability have been concluded eventually. Based on current situation and characteristics, four tendencies of their view of love have been summarized by further research, as follows:first, the more realistic view of love results in more attention on the material conditions; Secondly, the more rational view results in focusing on love and career; Thirdly, the traditional view of love acts dominant role, however paying attention to the love process at the same time; Fourthly, love becomes more open and personalized. Based on the previous conclusion, it is found that the following four issues existing in college students’ love view, in details, first, underestimating love and the expression of love becomes vulgar; Secondly, impure motivation leads to more emphases on appearance and money; Thirdly, the weakened moral conception results in treating love as game; Fourthly, love issue leads to extreme thoughts and behaviors.In terms of various love issues of college students in recent years, leaders and managers attached more importance on how to guide college students out of the errors with the scientific thinking and methods, so that they will have the ability of dealing with these issues in the rational way. That is not only an important subject of current college students’ education, but also an urgent problem of college educators. Based on investigation and analysis, combining students’ growing and living environment, and taking foreign successful education experience into account, writer believes that college educators should treat school as the main positions of love education, and at the same time actively contact the society and family, so as to making use of the joint effects of these three aspects to take measures of strengthening college students’ education of love.