Study On Marriage Responsibility Of Contemporary Chinese

Marriage as a social phenomenon, characterized by the combination with gender, is aspecial kind of social relations between men and women. Marriage and the family isthe responsibility, legal and moral obligations to society should bear the marriagebetween the parties with each other. Unity of love and responsibility constitute thebasis of the current socialist morality of marriage, because marriage is not only acombination of feelings, and is a combination of life and interests. Driven only in thesense of responsibility, in order to get support for the elderly, the couple can live inharmony, to get the child to grow up healthy and happy, and so on, marriage to getthe best protection. So is the ethical foundation of unity of marriage and maritalrelations responsibilities.Upon the conclusion of the marriage relationship also will change the relationshipbetween the two men, but may also produce new life, parties to a marriage have aresponsibility to their children and each other, to parents, to the community. First,both spouses have to love each other, live together, faithful and mutually dependentcare responsibilities. And marriage is not only reflected in the marital relationship,the responsibility still intergenerational relationships, material support for the elderlyand spiritual support, the right to raise and educate their children, both spousesshould bear. Moreover, as social beings, both spouses must also bear socialresponsibility necessary to promote the harmonious development of society.Since the reform and opening up. Most Chinese people have a correct understandingof the responsibilities of marriage, the responsibility to properly treat marriage andequality of spouses assume the responsibility of marriage has been enhancedawareness of the elderly "filial piety" also pay more attention to the spiritual care oftheir own, are no longer arbitrary treatment of children spoiled, but can be scientificand rational way to treat children. However, as China now in a transition period,subject to market economy utilitarian influence, as well as Western "sexualliberation", the impact of "individualism" concept, making the personalresponsibility of marriage had a great knowledge of the change, some people are notwell responsibility. Some young people even regard marriage as a trifling matter,flash flash from the marriage; more and more people get unfaithful in marriage, thereis deviant behavior; Worse still go "NEET ", deprived of parental leaving onlymaterial wealth; there people afraid to take the responsibility of marriage, the pursuitof personal hedonism and select " Dink ", to a certain extent, constitute a threat to thepopulation reproduction.Strengthening marriage responsibility consciousness, make both sides actively assumeresponsibility for marriage, first of all to the couple to establish acorrect understanding of their own, the correct understanding of marriage, enhancetheir sense of moral responsibility, to acknowledge the position of marriage in life; atthe same time, and strengthen external education and constraints, such as family andschool education, the guidance of public opinion and legal protection etc.. Only theparties to the marriage to assume social responsibility actively, in order to better maintain the marriage relationship, to promote family harmony, reduce thesocial problems.