Positive Psychological Quality: College Students Gratitude And Forgiveness Upbringing Causes Research

Positive psychology rose at the end of the20th century in the United States as a newpsychological research field, it focus on the positive qualities of human virtue and study on thehuman positive emotional experience, positive personality traits and positive organizationalsystem.Gratitude and forgiveness is seen as a pair of twins in positive psychology. Gratitude is apositive psychological quality in the face of grace, and forgiveness is a positive psychologicalquality in the face of hurt. My study focus on exploring the cause of college students’education in gratitude and forgiveness, which could help to improve the way of education,improve students’ personality, and improve the quality of life.This study takes the method of questionnaire based on the predecessors’ research. Wesampled561students of Xi’an Shiyou university to investigate the relationship between thecauses of Gratitude and forgiveness with the education of parents and college. The results areas follows:1.Parents play an important role in the formation of forgiveness and gratitude of collegestudents. The emotional understanding of parents has a significant effect on gratitude, punishis against the formation of gratitude. The emotional understanding of parents can help to formthe quality of forgiveness, at the same time, some negative impact like father’s interferencecould lower the forgiveness consciousness.2.Pre-school education has significant positive impact on the four factors of gratitude.Pre-school education has positive impact on unlimited forgiveness.3.Middle school education has significant positive impact on the four factors of gratitude.Primary school education has positive impact on limited forgiveness.4.Ideological and moral education, humanistic quality education, the collectivecollaboration activities, and professional theory and skills in college education have positiveimpact on the formation of gratitude and forgiveness.Based on the results of the investigation, the paper puts forward some feasiblesuggestions: attach importance to family educations, parents need to lead by example when educating their children. Creating an atmosphere of warmth and democratic in family.Communicating with children in time and pay attention to the development of children’sindependent consciousness, actively strengthen children’s gratitude and forgiveness. Schoolsshould strengthen the education of gratitude and forgiveness, guide students to form a healthyconsciousness of gratitude and forgiveness and into action. At the same time, teachers shouldplay the role of model and carry out a series of psychological health seminars and activities tomake the school full of positive energy.