The Gay's Wife Dilemma From The Perspective Of Homosexual Husband

Gay's wife has received more and more media attention Since 2015.4,Hongkong "Ming Pao", the New York times and domestic major news portals have published relevant reports.These reports focus on the life situation of gay wife group, the physical risks and the social pressure.The research on the gay's wife is more and more like the bamboo shoots after the rain.In this study, we used the anthropological research methods, combined with depth interviews and field survey. From the perspective of gay, we analyze the process of the edge and the edge of the state in the gay's wife marriage.We spend hundreds of hours in the gay internet community.We read tens of thousands of words about gay and his wife news reports or Historical documents.We believe in more than a dozen interviewers documents from gay people.we change our views with gay in marriage. We sorted out the related text more than one hundred thousand words.We have gained a wealth of experience and data.From a sociological point of perspective,In this paper, We conclude that there are four stages in the process of gay's wife marginalized in gay husband views,These four stages are the stages of questioning, struggle stage, self reconstruction, and reputation stage.These four stages show that the process of gay's wife being marginalized is Slow and continuous. Gay's wife also Faced with many difficulties, family status and social status is not stable,and the Health and legal protection of them is also a problem.after all the awareness of these,We think the solution to this problem rely on the self awakening of the gay wife,the duty of Gay husband and Social tolerance to diversity.This study enrich the research perspective of gay's wife group.They become marginalized people since their husband and the environment of social.At the same time,this role bring irreparable effects to gay's wife body and life.And solve the problem rely on changing the traditional concept of society, improving relevant laws and regulations and making social organizations to help them.