A Study On The Alienation Of The Relationship Between Remarried Father And Pro-adult Children And Their Influencing Factors

With the modernization process and the change of modern family system and concept,the family structure towards diversification.One of the results is that the greatly increase of divorce rate has increased remarried family and remarried population.The reorganization of marriage constitutes a social phenomenon that is equally concerned with the disintegra-tion of marriage in modern society.Parent and child relationship is an important role elem-ent in the family after the couple relationship.People usually refer to parent and children as as parent-child relationships,and it is a concrete manifestation between family relationshi-ps of immediate blood relationship.The relationship between parents and children in remarried families is also changing in the process of moving from a complete family to a disabled family to a remarried family.The author found that there was a weakening trend in the relationship between the remarri-ied father and the adult child in the field study of Y village.The remarried father was more inclined to contact with his spouse and her spouse,and the relationship with his children was gradually alienated,This alienation is not only reflected in the sharp decline in the fre-quency of interaction between the two sides,the remarried fathers reduce the economic for their adult children,but also reflected in the weakening of emotional communication betw-een each other.The main concern of this study is how the alienation of the relationship bet-ween the remarried father and the adult child is formed,What are the main influencing factors and how do they affect the relationship?This paper focuses on the theory of gender role and Weber's understanding of sociology as ananalytical tool to analyze how the relati-onship of parent-child relationship is shaped.This article argues that the strengthening of the status of the female family in the rem-marriage of the family,the step-by-step relationship between the step-by-step mother and t-he step-child,and the excessive interpretation of the step mother and father's behavior of t-he adult child will have a different relationship between the remarried father and the depe-ndent child.The impact of the degree,resulting in the relationship between the two gradual-ly showing the trend of separation,mainly in the following aspects:First,by the traditional gender division of labor model,the two sex more use of "male,female outside" division of labor,remarriage Women in the center of family management,greatly increased the stepm-other and stepchildren in the family this private areas of the opportunity to contact between the lack of emotional between the two sides,so that the pro-adult children choose to gradu-ally alienated remarried families,a corresponding reduction in the frequency of interaction with his father,And women's responsibility to consciously share with the results will stren-gthen the status of stepmother,improve their decision-making power in the family property,making the remarried father to reduce the economic support for their children;In addition,the remarried father' sawareness of the main weakened and remarried wife.The strengthen-ing of the inner consciousness greatly enhances the status of the remarried women,weake-ning the economic support of the stepchildren,and leading to the misunderstanding and ali-enation of the stepchildren and his father.Second,the remarriage of the family is accompa-nied by stepmother-the emergence of this follow-up relationship between the children,be-cause the two sides do not have blood relatives,the formation of emotional differences in emotional order,so that stepmother to minimize the frequency of contact with stepmother,gradually alienated remarried families,thereby reducing their father's The frequency of int-eraction,weakened the relationship between the remarried father and the child,the emotio-nal difference between the order of the poor order,stepmother will try to increase her hus-hband and his children's economic investment,to reduce their economic support for stepc-hildren,father's attention to stepmother also Third,according to Weber's understanding of sociology,adult children in the stepmother behavior,father remarriage performance on the existence of excessive interpretation of the fact that adult children on the stepmother and f-ather's behavior is more understanding Into the irrational emotions to understand,and the emotive understanding of their behavior can not be rational grasp,step by step child stepm-other behavior of excessive understanding,so that stepmother's stepmother and remarried remarried family identity greatly reduced,gradually alienated remarried family,so alienat-ed father,And his father remarried and other acts of excessive understanding,resulting in their alienated from all aspects of his father,and his father felt this situation,will accordin-gly alienate their children,deepening the two sides in the interactive,economic support an-d emotional Alienated.