Research On The Marriage Dilemma Of "Gay's Wife" In China

From the perspective of demography,this article takes China's “Gay's Wife” as the research object,uses their marriage as a cut-in point,uses a combination of online interviews and literature research,and applies grounded theory,a normative qualitative research method,to China.The marital dilemma of “Gay's Wife” was systematically analyzed and analyzed,and the causes of the dilemma of “Gay's Wife” were analyzed.The first part is the introduction.It mainly includes the research background and significance of "Gay's Wife",the definition of related concepts and literature review.The second part is the process of the second part research method and data collection.Finally,the third part,the main research contents include the third chapter,the fourth chapter and the fifth chapter.First of all,this paper considers that the content of the marriage dilemma of "Gay's Wife" in China is divided into direct manifestation and indirect manifestation.The direct manifestations of the dilemma of “Gay's Wife” mainly include the following five specific aspects: sexual predicament,lack of identity,threat of disease,contradiction between family members,and patience for marriage.The indirect manifestation of the dilemma of "Gay's Wife" is mainly reflected in the identity,including the self-identity of the Gay's Wife and the social recognition of the Gay's Wife.Through research and discussion on the marital difficulties of Gay's Wife,this paper concludes:First,based on the theory of grounded theory,this paper studies that the marriage dilemma of "Gay's Wife" in China is a continuation of homosexuality.First of all,influenced by the traditional concept of marriage,especially the influence of "every male should take a wife and every female should take a husband" and "a three unfilial,without issue" made most of the homosexuals enter into heterosexual marriages.Second,most of the interview with his wife after all think that as long as same-sex marriage is legalized,"Gay's Wife" marital difficulties will solve,even after the legalization of gay marriage,however,the related security measures to keep up with and social attitude toward homosexuality as a whole did not change,so will use a lot of gay will enter heterosexual marriage,phenomenon will still exist with the Gay's Wife.Regardless of the way homosexuality is entered into a heterosexual marriage,a large number of problems arise.This is also the cause of the marriage with the Gay's Wife,is the direct cause of the marriage dilemma.Secondly,based on the theory of grounded theory,this paper studies the problem of women's social status.First of all,is the modern concept of marriage and the traditional concept of marriage led to the differences between men and women in marriage and marital expectation differences,differences in male and female mating actually reflects to a denial of the female,and the difference of marital expectation is reflected the status of women in marriage is not high.Second,in gender culture,sex as taboos exist for a long time,sex as a taboo in women than in men reflect more apparent,this leads to a significant portion of women lack of initiative in the "sex",and some women lack of education knowledge also led to the inequality of women "sex" status;The double standard of sex refers to the judgment of a particular behavior that has different criteria for gender.The same behavior,if it happens to men,may be appropriate and even praiseworthy,but if it happens to women,it may be considered inappropriate.Finally,has been under the rule of are in the patriarchy society,is the purpose of social gender system can continue to put women as a group to succumb to the male to construct,to maintain the rule of the patriarchal society.But with the concept of equality between men and women is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people unceasingly,makes Gay's Wife,even women there has been a big change,to be able to stand up and safeguard the legitimate rights and interests of their own.