A Study On The Difficulty Of Choosing A Couple In Rural Male Youth

With the speeding of urbanization in our country, a large number of rural surplus labors are rushing into city from the countryside. This thesis based on the document literature and field investigation interviews, Henan Q Village as a case analysis of the plight of rural males mate youth.Firstly, on the "Rural young men," "Choosing a mate" "the difficulty of choosing mate" and defines the concept, then the marriage market theory, gradient mate based on the theory to explain the situation of rural young male mate. Most of them graduated from high school early to work outside the home, less farming experience, are very familiar with city life. But by the scientific and cultural qualities of self-limiting, most can only be engaged in the construction, transportation, decoration and other dirty, chaotic, and poor work. Because social capital, cultural capital, economic capital, symbolic capital is weak, so the Field of marriage in the city, they mate and urban citizens in the competition is difficult to win. Therefore, most rural young men who choose to return home spouse married. However, in the course of their spouse is affected by a variety of factors, the spouse is not smooth.When their spouse will be described, the author first from the spouse, mate way, mate range introduces the basic situation of their spouse, both from their own family and analyzes the factors affecting rural young males mate. From their own side, height, appearance, character, personality, ability, level of education, health, etc. have an important impact on their spouse, of course, their ability, that their economic conditions are critical to its mate. That is, the weaker the individual, the more difficult spouse. From the family, the family economic conditions, parental occupation, parental health, reputation and other parents have an important impact on the spouse, but the impact of the most fundamental is the family economic conditions and the number of siblings in the family. Under conditions similar to personal circumstances, good or bad family economic conditions affect the degree of difficulty mate; at the same time, the number of how many boys have a significant impact on the spouse family. The boy showed the greater the number, the more difficult spouse. Because the amount of capital under the premise of certain family-owned, increase the number of boys, means that the average each person to the less capital, the amount of property can be assigned to women are also less. On the other hand, per capita capital is much higher than a single boy on multiple boys in the marriage market is more likely to find favor.Reasons for the plight of rural young males mate, the author analyzed the objective and subjective reasons. Born male sex ratio imbalance caused by the "marriage squeeze" mode spouse and spouse narrow range due to objective reasons Intermarriage Circle mate dilemma arise. Subjective analysis of the causes of their own young men from rural and family both. Rural young men of their own ability, social support networks lead to narrow mate difficulties; young men in rural households poor economic conditions, the number of brothers in the family leads to mate more difficult. Because many children in the family, mate cost to expand exponentially, limited family resources, as the eldest son to marry a wife often have to give everything. And he has married the son of the family, even if separated from out under no obligation to the original family gathering money. This means that at the back channels of wealth accumulation son greatly reduced, their marriage is virtually extended. This part of the plight of the rural young males mate more worrying. Mate plight of rural young men not only to bring their own severe psychological pressure, so that they have low self-esteem, anxiety, do not want to communicate with people even thought of suicide, but also have an enormous psychological pressure on their parents, life satisfaction greatly reduced. Moreover, rising costs spouse, male rural young families facing heavy financial burden.By analyzing the subjective and objective reasons for the plight of the rural young males mate appeared, the author puts forward the corresponding countermeasures. From the government point of view, you can create cross-regional site mate, young men in rural areas to broaden the scope of spouse; conduct propaganda, support and encourage the Marriage and marriage patterns; the role of rural financial institutions to provide zero interest loans to economically disadvantaged families. Rural young men from their own perspective, vocational technical re-education, culture and skill levels; to increase investment in human capital, optimize the consumption structure; their own businesses, increase income. Young men from rural household perspective, excavation within the family resources and enhance the economic strength of the family.