The Enlightenment Of Confucius's Thought Of "Etiquette" On College Students' Etiquette Education

Through the gains and losses of"etiquette of Yin " and "etiquette of Zhou",which makes more than two thousand years ago,Confucius founded a timed rite system to deal with and save the "falling of ceremony" situation.Today,To discard the traditional etiquette culture,we still need to learn this approach:get rid of its backward pedantry,inherit and carry forward the essence of the line with the trend of the times.At the same time,with the development trend of the times,the etiquette culture needed for the progress of China is created,so that the spiritual civilization of the whole society can be improved continuously.According to the new system in the replacement of strained interpersonal relationships and social disorder management,Confucius stood in the promotion of the whole society and achieve mastery of height,hope people live together in peace through the "benevolence"and "etiquette",as well as the society in order.It can be said that "benevolence" is the foundation and "etiquette-" is the external form.The two are complementary and difficult to divide.This paper tries to understand and grasp the thought of benevolence by studying the thought of Confucius' "etiquette".Therefore,this article mainly from the thought of 4'etiquette",and takes The book of Rites and The Analects of Confucius as the main analysis on reach object to comb the points of Confucius' etiquette."Etiquette" as an important part of Confucius,thought,not only embodies the inheritance Patriarchal clan and Ethics about part of“moral of Zhou",but also shows the innovation and expansion on it,which makes its universal scope,function and value have achieved a leap of development.As the core part of Confucianism,the study of ritual has been respected and publicized by Confucius's later Confucian scholars,and its theoretical system has been greatly enriched and developed.It has provided rich resources for the study of ritual modernization.Confucius's ritual thought has been deeply expounded and updated or reformed by emperors like Mengzi,Xunzi,Dong Zhongshu,Zhuzi and Tang Xuanzong and so on.There is no doubt that"etiquette" plays an indispensable role in stabilizing the order of feudal society.Whether modern scholars of Confucianism thought of Confucius is criticized or praised advocate,we found that in the fact it can still play a significant in improving the national quality and the construction of a harmonious society.Through the outline of the development of Confucius's "etiquette" theory and its anatomy of the deep meaning,the paper hopes to find out the value part of the "etiquette" development in accordance with the needs of modern social etiquette education.By contrasting and learning from Japan,South Korea,Singapore and other countries of the etiquette education content,methods,and combining the characteristics of contemporary college students' physical and mental development,exploring the effective way of put the essence of Confucius's thought of etiquette into in classroom learning and social practice activities,and thus enhance the citizen moral cultivation of the college students and carry forward the Chinese nation about"benevolence" and "etiquette"!...