The Relationship Among Parenting Ideas,the Parent-child Relationship And The Social Development Of Children

The social development is an important part of children's all-round development.It is the basis of children's healthy physical and mental growth.It is also the key for children to become responsible and independent members of society.Family plays an important role in children's social development.Family is the earliest place of education for young children,the earliest executor and basic executor of socialization for young children.As for the relationship between family and children's social development,the existing studies mainly involve explicit behavior such as upbringing attitude,upbringing behavior and upbringing mode,while few empirical studies have been conducted on the inner upbringing concept.In addition,the study of parent-child relationship mostly focuses on older children,especially adolescents,while the study of parent-child relationship in early childhood is less.Therefore,it is of great significance to explore the relationship among parenting concept,parent-child relationship and children's social development.In this study,724 children aged 5-6 and their parents were selected as the research objects.By using the questionnaire survey method,the present situation of parenting concept,parent-child relationship and children's social development as well as the relationship among them were investigated and analyzed in depth.The main conclusions of this study are as follows: Parents generally hold a more positive concept of upbringing,among which children's development concept is the most progressive;Urban parents are more objective and scientific in the concept of upbringing;Parents with low family monthly income level and educational level have a strong concept of success.The relationship between parents and children in modern families tends to be harmonious as a whole;The relationship between mother and children is better than that between father and children;The low educational level of parents has a certain impact on the relationship between parents and children.The overall level of children's social development is higher,among which the development of social adaptability is the best,and the development of anti-frustration ability is weaker;The social development level of urban children with superior familyeconomic conditions is better.There are significant positive correlations between parenting concept and parent-child relationship,parent-child relationship and children's social development,parenting concept and children's social development.Parenting concept and parent-child relationship can predict children's social development to a certain extent.In view of the above conclusions,this paper puts forward the following suggestions: In terms of changing the concept of upbringing,parents should set up the concept of multiple talents and ability first;establish a positive concept of frustration education to improve children's ability to resist frustration;change the concept of upbringing through educational knowledge learning,exchange of parenting experience and home cooperation.In terms of improving parent-child relationship,fathers should change their traditional concepts and raise their awareness of participating in the upbringing,practice and participate in early upbringing through various ways.