Research On The Current Situation Of College Students' Views On Marriage And Love And The Countermeasures Of Educational Guidance

Love and marriage are an important part of life.With the change of society and the diversified development of culture,people's concept of love and marriage has undergone tremendous changes.College students,as a new force group of social ideological changes,have become more daring to pursue ideal love and more open concept of marriage and love.But at the same time,College students,because their minds are not yet fully mature,can not deeply understand the true nature of love and marriage,coupled with self-centered,there are still some wrong perceptions of love and marriage problems,which have brought some negative impacts on their academic and physical and mental health.Therefore,it is an important part of the frontier issues of Ideological and political education for college students to understand the basic situation and misunderstanding of College Students' concept of marriage and love,and to educate and guide them to establish a correct concept of marriage and love.This paper adopts the methods of literature research,questionnaire survey,interview and cross-analysis.On the basis of drawing lessons from the previous research results of scholars at home and abroad,starting with the basic theory of College Students' concept of marriage and love,it chooses colleges and universities in Shenyang to conduct questionnaire survey and interview,and analyses the first-hand information obtained,and summarizes the characteristics of College Students' concept of marriage and love at present.The main problems are analyzed,and the causes of the main problems are analyzed.On this basis,the countermeasures and suggestions are put forward to strengthen the education of College Students' views on marriage and love.In terms of specific chapters,this paper is divided into five chapters: Chapter 1,Introduction.The background,significance,content,method and innovation of the research are elaborated in detail,and the research status of the concept of love and marriage at home and abroad is reviewed through literature review.In the second chapter,on the basis of extensive reading of Marxist classics and a large number of relevant literature,the author summarizes the relevant concepts and theories,summarizes the main characteristics of College Students' views on marriage and love,and the significance of education in guiding college students to establish correct views on marriage and love.In the third chapter,a questionnaire survey is conducted on the current situation of College Students' views on marriage and love.Through data analysis,it is found that there are some problems in college students' views on marriage and love,such as blindness of love motivation,materialization and utilitarianism of spouse selection criteria,immaturity of emotional processing,openness of sexual concepts and behaviors,and weak sense of responsibility marriage and love.Chapter IV,adhering to the basic theory of Marxism,analyses the main reasons for the problems existing in college students' outlook on marriage and love.It is influenced by the objective law of social development,foreign ideology and culture,and the social influence catalyzed by mass media.It is also affected by the weak education of outlook on marriage and love in basic education,the insufficient attention paid to the education of outlook on marriage and love in Colleges and universities,and the insufficient innovation of educational contents and methods of The factors are influenced by the changes of family model,family environment atmosphere and the lagging of family marriage education.They are also influenced by personal factors such as personal growth experience,poor ability to distinguish right from wrong and poor self-control ability,lack of basic knowledge of marriage and love and self-reflection consciousness.The fifth chapter puts forward the countermeasures to the causes of the current situation of College Students' view of marriage and love,and puts forward the social countermeasures to take the socialist core values as the value guide of socialist morality in the new era,to carry forward the marriage and love virtues in traditional Chinese culture,and to give full play to the public opinion-oriented role of mass media;to attach importance to the main channel role of Ideological and political theory courses,to improve campus websites and psychological counseling centers;The school countermeasures to create a good campus cultural environment,strengthen the educational concept of family marriage and love,and create a harmonious family atmosphere,establish correct values of life,correctly understand and deal with the relationship between love and learning,and strengthen the personal Countermeasures of College Students' self-protection ability in love and marriage.