The Study On Marriage And Love Concept Of Female Postgraduates In Shaanxi Province

In recent years,hot words such as “single single rate high” and “marriage rate low”have been constantly appearing on the Internet.The problem of “marriage difficulties”has been referred to the media from time to time.According to statistics from the Ministry of Education,girls accounted for 53.8% of the total number of graduate students admitted in 2018 in China.Female graduate students,who are suitable for marriage,have higher secondary school education and are relatively mature in their thinking.However,under the gradient theory,women with better conditions in all aspects are more likely to become "leftover women." When female graduate students are in the dilemma of “marriage difficulties” for a long time,it not only affects the female graduates 'own happiness,but also more likely to promote the breeding of the wrong values of“ doing better than marry well ”.At the same time,in the long run,if women are unable to enter the marriage hall smoothly,it may have an impact on the traditional Chinese family system,and breed more social problems.On 2017,the Midand Long-Term Youth Development Plan(2016-2025)issued by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China and the State Council listed youth marriage as a core issue that urgently needs attention for youth growth and development.Studying the female graduate student's outlook on marriage and love,and grasping the female graduate student's love and marriage mentality,will not only help guide female graduate students to form a positive and healthy outlook on love and marriage,but also will bring stable,healthy and sustainable development to our country.This article is guided by Marxist concept of marriage and love,combined with Sternberg's love theory,gradient theory,etc.,using the literature research method,questionnaire survey method and interview survey method,to focus on the following aspects: First,through the questionnaire statistical data and interviews with female graduate students understand and grasp the current status of female graduate students' views on marriage and love,and summarize the contradictions and problems in their views.Secondly,using SPSS22.0 to analyze the statistical data,combining literature and existing research,to explore the influencing factors of female graduate students' outlook on marriage.Finally,some countermeasures are put forward for the female graduate students' view of marriage.The main effort of this article are as follows: First,sort out and summarize the contradictions existing in the concept of marriage&love of female graduate students today.Such as: "perfection" and "imperfection" in the process of mate selection,"simple" and "complex" in the motive of love,"freedom" and "constraint" in the choice of marriage,and "traditional" and "modern" in the concept of sex.Second,the research analyzes the influencing factors of female graduate students 'views on love and marriage,including the influence of traditional love and marriage concepts,the influence of social values on love and marriage,the influence of the original family's ideas on love and marriage,the lack of marriage education in colleges and universities,and the influence of female graduates' own thoughts.Thirdly,in order to solve the problems,the author proposes countermeasures to improve the difficulty of marriage and love for female graduate students and educational countermeasures for the concept of marriage&love for female graduate students.Therefore,the first is to improve the social environment from gender equality,the second is to promote family education based on communication and guidance,the third is to enhance college training from education and publicity,and the fourth is to lift the concept of female graduates from self-improvement.The concept of marriage&love of female graduate students is not only an education issue,but also a social issue.We must start from multiple angles,such as society,family,school,and female graduates themselves,and work together in various ways to solve the problems and to ensure the female graduates find love eventually.