Current Situation And Educational Research Of Marriage And Love View Of Female University Students In Urban And Rural Areas

With the development of The Times and the progress of the society,people’s concept of love and marriage is constantly changing.University students,as an elite group in the society,to some extent lead the trend of social mainstream values of love and marriage.Under the influence of China’s unique household registration system and traditional concepts,the concept of marriage and love among urban and rural female University students has its particularity.This study focus on exploring the marriage concept of female University students in urban and rural areas,analysing the influence factors of their concept’s formation,and explore education strategy with female students’ opinions about marriage and love.to enrich and perfect the theory of dating of different students groups,improve the social attention to the education with students in their opinions about love,provides the theory basis for the education with colleges and universities to carry out the opinions about love.On the basis of summarizing the literature,the author divides the concept of love and marriage into five aspects: the concept of love,the concept of mate selection,the concept of marriage,the concept of family and the concept of sex.Through questionnaire survey and statistical analysis,the author found that gender and household registration have a significant impact on college students’ attitudes towards love and marriage.The differences between rural female University students and urban female University students’ attitudes towards love and marriage are mainly manifested in three aspects: marriage,family and sex.The differences between rural female University students and rural male University students,urban female University students and urban male University students on love and marriage are reflected in five aspects: love concept,mate concept,marriage concept,family concept and sexual concept.Through the follow-up interviews,the author found that the factors influencing the formation of the concept of love and marriage among urban and rural female University students mainly include five aspects: social factors,educational factors,cultural factors,objective factors and individual factors.In contemporary society,There are some deficiencies in the education of love and marriage view,such as the single method,divorced from reality,outdated content and lack of time.we advocate socialist core values.Therefore,the educationof University students’ views on love and marriage should be guided by the views on love and marriage that conform to the socialist core values,and at the same time,the differences in gender and household registration should be respected to avoid the specialization of urban and rural female University students.Education on love and marriage should be based on love,we advocate the freedom of love and marriage,gender equality,avoid utilitarianism,enhance the awareness of moral responsibility,and enhance tolerance and understanding.The education of marriage and love concept of urban and rural female University students should rely on the joint efforts of the three main bodies of University,families and society.As the main body of education,colleges and universities can set up marriage and love education courses and actively carry out campus psychological support.Meanwhile,they can realize sub-module teaching in the course content to avoid discrimination and special treatment of urban and rural female University students.The family should optimize the education of marriage and love view comprehensively.The parents should actively participate in the cooperation of family and school in the education of marriage and love view.They should set an example in daily life to positively influence their children’s view of marriage and love.The society should make full use of the programs such as movies and TV plays to spread the positive and healthy concept and knowledge of love and marriage,purify the network environment,and create a good social atmosphere.