"The Family Instructions Of Yan Family" Etiquette Education Thought And Its Modern Value Research

Since ancient times,China has been known as the "land of rites and ceremonies",which shows that the etiquette education of ancient society played an important role.With the change of The Times,the change of the social form,the traditional etiquette culture is gradually disappearing.But the traditional etiquette still has its value in the modern society and is worth inheriting and carrying forward.The thought of etiquette education in The Yan Clan is an important part of traditional etiquette culture.Therefore,this paper,based on The Yan Clan,makes a comprehensive and in-depth discussion on his etiquette education thoughts.The research questions of this paper mainly include: under what background did the etiquette education thoughts of The Yan Clan come into being? What is its status? What aspects does The Yan Clan etiquette education thought involve? What modern value does it have what enlightenment can bring to modern and contemporary etiquette education again?This paper takes the etiquette education thought of The Yan Clan as the research object,and conducts the research with the method of literature analysis.Firstly,it starts from the background and status of the etiquette education thought of The Yan Clan.Then the purpose,proposition,content,method and essence of its etiquette education are expounded in detail.Then it reveals the modern value of the etiquette education of The Yan Clan,combined with the current situation of social etiquette,this paper summarizes and analyzes the prominent problems and their causes,and obtains the enlightenment of modern and contemporary etiquette education from the etiquette education thought of The Yan Clan.It is found that the profound thought of etiquette education contained in The Yan Clan has a very important historical position in the traditional etiquette education of our country,which comes from the unique historical background and the author's personal life experience at that time.The Yan Clan etiquette education thought to know the ceremony,cultivate one's morality,qi family as the purpose;The proposition of the world to change,since the degree of section,the ceremony for the teaching-based,respect the body,the ceremony of human relations,grace by righteousness;The content of etiquette education mainly involves respect for parents,fraternal brothers,respect for teachers,conduct oneself,receive guests and friends several aspects;Its advocate of etiquette education methods have to read the classics,from the good to the good,teaching by example,one by one.The norms and requirements of daily behavior etiquette,behind the reflection of the essence of etiquette is filial piety and respect.The Yan Clan etiquette education thought has its existence modern value,is the carrier of the traditional etiquette education,is conducive to the specification of individual moral quality,enhance the relationship between people,so as to promote the stability and harmony of social order.Through the profound analysis of the prominent problems and causes of etiquette in today's society,it can be found that the etiquette education thought of The Yan Clan has a great enlightenment to today's etiquette education.Today's etiquette education should absorb the essence of traditional etiquette,make up for the concept of the fault;Attach importance to family etiquette education and create a good family style.At the same time should pay attention to the etiquette education method: enumerate the concrete instance form,influence affects the individual;Take into account the human relations according to the situation,innovation etiquette practice and so on.