A Study Of The Parent-child Relationship Alienation Of Divorced Single-parent Families And Social Work Intervention

With the acceleration of the urban process,the family culture and social structure have become diversified.Coupled with the impact on foreign cultures on traditional marriage concepts,the divorce rate has continued to rise.The sharp increase in the number of divorced families has caused people’s attention to single-parent families to gradually increase.Different reasons such as divorce,widowed,and separated cause different forms of single-parent families.The research object of this article is divorced single-parent families.In a divorced single-parent family,the absence of a parent has brought both mental and economic pressure to the caregiver,as well as psychological harm and poor cognition to the child.At the same time,the caregiver is liable to deal with the children’s bad personality and deviating behavior with a negative attitude to a stressful situation,resulting in a bad parentchild relationship.The problem studied in this article is the problem of parent-child alienation in bad parent-child relationships.This study explores and intervenes in the parent-child relationship alienation of divorced single-parent families by using the Satir family therapy model.Satya Family Therapy Model is a unique practice model in family social work.After being introduced into our country,it has received great recognition and provided new ideas and methods for China’s social work intervention services.The author tried to use the Satya family therapy model to provide intervention services to individual families,and learned and mastered the concept and method of this model in practice.The main research methods used in this study are participatory observation method and structured interview method.These two methods run through the intervention activities.Throughout the intervention process,the author first understands the family profile of the D family,defines family problems,and uses the family system diagram to understand the relationship between the entire D family members and the life history of related characters of more detail,and collects and improves the D family’s information.Secondly,through interviews and observations,the parent-child relationship alienation in D family was analyzed.In the D family,the main manifestations of parent-child alienation include poor communication between parents and children,long distances between parents and children,and parent-child conflicts from time to time.After that,the author found out the reasons for further factors.The main reasons are changes in family structure,low levels of parental adaptation,high family economic pressures,mothers’ wrong parenting styles,and children’s physical and mental changes and cognition.Finally,the author uses Satir family therapy model to conduct practical intervention in D family.This intervention process includes three phases : the relationshipbuilding phase-the diagnosis of the family;the chaos phase-the reconstruction of the family;the integration phase-the improvement of the family.The author will use the tools and techniques of the relevant Satya family therapy model at various stages for interventional treatment.In the first stage,I will mainly choose small techniques such as reconstruction and humor to create a safe and trusting environment,so as to better establish with the D family.Collection of professional relationships and family information;the second stage take the iceberg model as the main treatment method,and goes deeper and deeper into the hearts of family members D to see their inner aspirations;the third stage mainly uses the form of family sculptures to come and go The family problem is motivated,and members have a new perception and understanding of the family system.Eventually,they " break " and " rebuild " the old model.They face life and love each other with a consistent high self-esteem attitude,and finally realize harmonious parent-child relationship.