A Research On Love Problem

We are all yearning for love which can only belong to ourselves, hoping that Noah's Ark can send us to the Garden of Eden, whishing that love can exist with us forever. But people often indulge themselves with excessive sadness, and they often closely guard a secret because of disappointment. Is love a problem which is a unrealistic fantasy? A thing which should not be talked about? A problem which isn't worth to say? The answer is not. Though there are so much disappointment in front, people are still looking forward to love all the same, we can't live without love. In this case, we ought to confront and solve this problem.In this article, we mainly discuss about the essence of love. Because none but going deep into understanding what love is, we can affirm which is not love, which is the substitute of love. And then we can find that some ideology in our life is closing over our love, and we should find some effective way to break this kind of ideology.The mainly idea is that love is based on paying out, and love is a mature ability of a person. It is a kind of experience which is based on humanity, amour-propre and logical belief. Love is an acknowledgement of one's inherent power, is a category which is closely correlative with one's mental maturity and seeking for life's value. Love is an active power of life, it needs sane independence, correctitude of cognition. Love needs we leading our energy to more extensive cognition about the land of the living but not just localizing between two persons. There are some kinds of conception in our daily life make our love dissimilated, and prevent people to find their true love. We should no other than see through the illusive love which is resulted in ideology, then we an make our love tending towards forever.This thesis is made up with five parts, it starts with why we need love and ends up with walking up to loving forever. The first part is mainly talking about why we need love. Love is our needs which can help us getting rid of loneliness, understanding ourselves and becoming real person. The second part is an introduction of love's philosophical headstream. The third part is talking about what is love. In this part, it is expatiating on the essence and intension of love, and it is confirming that love's essence is active paying out but not negative calling for. The fourth part is talking about the love' defilade in our daily life. People often disaffirm the existence of love, make the inhibition of love, and regard the marriage to a port of living , measures of getting money and status. The fifth part is breaking the defilade of love, making love forever. None but people are having ability of love, conquering narcissism, and having caritative spirit that they can break the defilade of love, make love forever.La Rochefoucauld said: there are so many people if they didn't heard others talking about love, they didn't want to love. It is article's main meaning that clarifying the essence of love and scanning the daily estate of modern people' love, discussing about how people themselves and others can harmoniously survive together.