| The middle school student is at the important stage in life, is the key periods of physiology, psychological maturity, it is the important stage that world outlook, outlook on life and values form too. Middle school student's calf love phenomenon has certain universality at present, and is spreading to low age. At present, according to some domestic investigation results: Probably about 30% of students admit in the middle school student from 13 years old to 17 years old that there is the different charges in nature friend in close relations, 78% of the students admit having calf love behaviors oneself, students have been already customary to the calf love phenomenon. This has already become the comparatively thorny problem in educational course, if it is improper to handle, it will influence the growing up healthy and sound of the middle school student seriously. The ones that are accompanied by popularization of the movie & TV and modern network technology and teenagers' sexual precocity are ahead of time, junior school student's calf love question had already been put in junior middle school in front of form master and other schools educated the administrator more and more severely. Junior school student's calf love phenomenon has already aroused the attention from school, family and society more and more, relied on means such as the morals preach, disciplinary punishment, etc. and can not already simply solve the basic problem, make the question prone to complicating oppositely sometimes, on this problem, should follow and put prevention first, principle dredged actively.There is research that have calf love junior school student of phenomenon in order to study the things inside the neat town with Baotou city TuYouQiSaLaQi through to the definition of junior school student's calf love academia, why did I define the calf love, expound characteristic, classification, displays and educational countermeasure of junior school student's calf love, and has carried on a large amount of interview and questionnaire investigation to the junior school student in calf love, analyzed and summed up at the same time, based on the middle school student's calf love phenomenon of school of middle school in SaLaQi, and classmates, parents, teacher's view on the calf love phenomenon and some measures which solve the problem, and analyze from different angles that has described the inducement of junior school student's calf love according to investigation three kinds, twelve problems have been found. That is, first, the reasons of students, 1. Calf love is a growing problem; 2.Quite a lot of teenagers approve calf love 3.The opinions are different in different grades Second, the reasons of parents, 1.Especially the calf love of parents' job with relevant education with the family and living environment;2. Especially the calf love with relevant education with the family 3. Calf love related to family economic income;4. Warm and calf love caused that the child of broken home lacks the family; Third, the reasons of schools 1.Calf love phenomenon is serious in the teenagers living in school 2.The culture of school and class is the main cause for calf love; 3. Dull and uninteresting and calf love produced that because of the lesson to live in remaining years; 4. Teenagers' curiosity, misunderstanding and exploring the relevant calf love to the sex; 5. Necessary guide is lack in schoolIn this research, I have visited a large number of relevant teachers, have recorded some typical cases, really a lot of teachers are troubled by this, also some strategies are found, that is, 1.More education ,understanding it harm2.Aware of it ,avoiding it;3. More activities exchanging emotion 4. Improve the knowledge guiding them properly; 5.Love students all one's heart 6.Creative good environment to educate students 7.Respect the students 8.Change teachers mind, Accumulated many valuable experience that handle problem at the same time, thus draw the conclusion of this research: It is very normal to produce the calf love phenomenon in the modern junior school student, it is not controllable to be ripe, the ancient harnesses the river, stop up, the water damage is aggravated; Dredge it for the profit. It is likewise water, managing too, the people that the work is not lying in water and harnessing the river. To educators, dredging in adolescence has deep enlightenment to sprout in this. As the teacher, this question of junior school student's calf love is not at all surprising according to children angle of physical and psychological rule of development, but student understanding of this question mostly quite understand, the teacher wants to be good at finding, guide correctly, understand students, respect student's personality, emotion and personal secrets, take the tolerant attitude, the concrete condition of a serious nature is made a concrete analysis of, take the appropriate method, suit the remedy to the case, appropriate guide protects the healthy development of student in coordination with taking charge in unison and jointly administrating in many aspects... |
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