The Qualitative Research Of The Reasons For Well-developed High Schoolers In Single-parent Family

This research is a qualitative research aims at the prejudice does to the single-parent family in the society. In the society most people think certainly the single-parent family is the incomplete family, the breakage family, the child growing in the single-parent family who cannot make his good progress because he lacks a side parents' love. The child who is in incomplete and breakage family which is not like the complete family have not a positive environment, which caused him not to be able to develop well. This research selects a unique visual angle, to probe into the reasons that how the well-developed high schoolers in single family can go out of the influence from the incomplete family to develop themselves well.This is just the creatation of this research. This research has not looked like the continuously domestic and foreign research, many of them begins from the negative side of the single-parent family, to elaborate even to prove all sorts of the negative influence of the single-parent family; but runs counter, this research selects several well-developed high schoolers to probe into the reasons that how they develop well in single-parent families. This research inquires the life's and growing invironment ,the influcing factors of the school highers. From the visual angle of the parent and the child of the family to explain the change of family and the adaptation to the family, to make explanation as far as possible with the words of themselves.This research believed that the reasons that the high schoolers in the single-parent family can go out the family incomplete influence to develop well lie in:First, the high schoolers in the single-parent family develop good or not, which does not have the necessive connection with their guardian's educational level,and their current economic.Second, the hige schoolers' development in the single-parent family must have the guardian's care and the guidance. The love between the guardian and the child is the important soil sand for the child positive development.Third, the guidance of the single-family who can walk out of the single marriage such as divorce and separation,who can face life ,who can undertake the responsibility to raise the child, who can handle the relation with the home of the child's papa properly,who can build a good developing environment, these are the key factors to the child's development.Fourth,the higher schoolers in single-parent families have the good companion with the schoolmates, the friends ,the enthusiastic teachers, the good neighbors, the gentle paternal grandparents etc, these let them be able to enjoy the warmth in the incomplete family. So,they don't grow in a lonely environment, just grow in a good environment, therefore they have not the feeling of being abandoned,they can remove negative effect and they can develop themselves well.