The Relationship Between Connecting Feeling Development Of Mongolian Adolescent Persons And Parents' Cultured Manner

Connecting feeling goes through all our life. Bowlby holds the view that connecting feeling play a important role in our life. The adolescent period, a turning point in our life, is so critical in development of our life that during this period the emotional support from connecting feeling holds a key importance to heath of adolescent person.Family is a crucial environment where the development and socialization of adolescent persons will be influenced to a great extent, especially by their parents. Adolescent connecting feeling to parent exerts a great impact on health of their cognition, emotion, personality and behavior and their social adjustment.By investigating 389 adolescent students of Mongolian nationality from both middle school and high middle school , author attempts to learn about the information and disclose the developmental pattern of three kinds of connecting feeling and the influence patents'cultured manner have. Some conclusion can be draw.Firstly, adolescent students of Mongolian nationality pay more affection to their parents and companion. What's more, the quality of connecting to mother is higher than that to father and companion. In contrast to it, the communication between father and adolescent students is fewer.Secondly, adolescent students of Mongolian nationality from city have more frequent communication with parents than those from countryside, which illustrates parents'cultured manner affects the communication between parents and their children.Thirdly, there is sexual difference in the connecting feeling of adolescent students of Mongolian nationality. In comparison to girls, boys lay more trust on father and they have higher level of communication with their father.Fourthly, there is sill a dramatic difference in grade. It is evident that students in grade two of both middle school and middle high school have lower connecting feeling to their parents and companion.Lastly, different cultured manners from different parents have a great impact on the development of connecting feeling of adolescent students. Furthermore, warmth and understanding from mother and father, along with refusal and negativity from mother to some extent have a calculative effect on connecting feeling of adolescent students of Mongolian nationality to their parents and companion while the cultured manners of mothers exert a more positive effect on connecting feeling to their companion.