Self-monitoring. Emotions Start Interpersonal Quality, The Impact Of Self-harmony

Self-monitoring is a relative stable personality trait which reflects the psychology trend and control capability during social communication. Self -monitoring can demonstrate expression control and individual distance; it can describe an activity process, an individual's personality feature, and one person's special capability. In other words, self-monitoring is an important internal guide line for self-presentation during social communication. Meanwhile, if one person wants to keep a long time, stable and active interaction relative, interpersonal and self harmony must be achieved.In the process of interpersonal interaction, self-monitoring is an ability of self- observation, self-control and self-modulation. Different levels of self-monitoring are in the means of how to observe, modulate and control the external expression and whether take active action to have a good interpersonal interaction. Self-monitoring is a ubiquitous social psychological phenomenon which requests for self-monitoring in accordance with different sociality environment. Self-monitoring has a tight relationship with self-harmony. Individual has the ability of keeping internal harmony and modulating the relation between oneself and experience, i.e. self-harmony. If one person ignores the conflicts of self feeling during interpersonal interaction, oppress actual internal attitude, do not know versatility, and could not reduce conflicts and concern by emotion self control and modulation; internal conflicts and self- disharmony will occur.This research is mainly to fresh men and sophomores in university, in the means of emotion priming, using pictures of social communication with emotion. The tools are Self-monitoring Scale, Self-Harmony Inventory, Teenage Psychological Health Researching Table, and SPSS software. The research analyzed the condition of self-monitoring, interpersonal making ability, self harmony and relation among them.This research gives the conclusions to be as follows:①Self-monitoring has a tight relationship with emotional experience. People who have good self-monitoring condition can easily adjust the environment; but people who have bad self-monitoring condition have a relatively stable emotion.②People who have different self-monitoring conditions have different conditions of interpersonal constitution and self-harmony.③People who have different self-monitoring conditions under emotional priming have different interpersonal constitution and self-harmony conditions. Active emotion can develop interpersonal constitution and self-harmony well; while positive emotion will block them.