Students Comes To Love And Measures

In one's life,everyone will undergo several converts.Love,marriage are the necessary way,the key rouncL.They will effect all the life.Collegers are in their puberty,with the rippening of physiology and the developing of psychology,they have come to the age of love. They have beautiful disire and intense pursuit for love, and yearn for to associate with opposite sex .One's attitute, concept to love and marriage and the capacity associating with opposite sex are formed and developed in the college .Love also produce when one in college ,many psychological problems arise in love often disturb the colleger, affect their study and life .Some becom lonely because without friends of opposite sex, some compare with others blindly, some get into one-sided love because wishful thinking, some indecisive because face to several pursuers, some fall out of love because unsuitable, some think oneself to be loved because misunderstand, even some special want to die because love lorness, neglet one's study and even psychosis, commit murder, the phenomenon that live-together is also a scence what make the college educator awkward. All the problems can influnce the perfection of personality and growth healthy, and if the influnce arose, its degree is very strong, and it can't diminish for a long time. The problems that the colleger be in love impcle the tapping of potential and the final form of good personalitiy and direct influnce the constitute of positive sociaty surroundings in the future. Therefore, the education for the colleger about the concept of love is not only the requirment of the colleger's sound in body and mind, the calling of quality education, but also the concret reflection of the humanistic concerning for collegers.Only by understand the love concept of colleger, we can develop relating education about the health of psychology focally, thereby attain positive and effective achivement. The status quo of colleger love concept, in one aspect can be shown from every side though the action about this aspect of all the collegers in every college, the answer when developing psychological counsel in thecollegers, typical case etc, in the other aspect, we can understand some knowledge to some thorough and concret questions overall and system of the colleger. The thesis through the questionaire to 437 collegers in different special field of study, different sexul, different level from all over the country in HeBei institute of architectual science and technology, HeBei institute of water and water electricity, Handan institute and Handan normal institute, grasp some knowledge about the love concept of the colleger in depth and detail to some questions basically.Developing the education for love sound in mind directly in college is the main way, impeling the colleger to form correct love concept.The main developing sound in mind to love for colleger is: 1, Strength the composite level of sound in mind of colleger. 2, Improve the capacity of bearing frustration in love of the colleger. 3 % Deepen the degree of understanding oneself and the others. 4* Urge the colleger form correct loce concept. 5 ^ Decrease the influnce to be become a useful person arise from the love.When developing the education for love concept in colleges and universities, we should insist the principle of systematic,overall,objective. We can urge the colleger to communicate and associate by making the perfect surrounding for the growth psychology; We can urge the form of correct love concept by developing special coach for psychology.To sum up, this thesis expound the importance,urgency,protracted of the education about love concept to the colleger in colleges and institutes, investigate the status quo of the colleger love concept, discuss the aim principle channel,and way for developing the education about the love concept to the collegers in colleges and institutes .