| With the development of urbanization, the institution of marriage also willchange,the traditional arranged marriage system as well as the concept of “perfectmatchâ€mate gradually eliminated by the times. The marriage combined with the waypeople are no longer subject to the family,education,geographic restrictions,but takethe freedom to choose their own marriage. Therefore, in the context of thetransformation of the institution of marriage,“The Phoenix Maleâ€and“ThePeacock Girlâ€marriage binding mode generated. However,the transformation of theinstitution of marriage will be hidden behind the many problems,“The PhoenixMaleâ€and“The Peacock Femaleâ€marriage is particularly obvious.It is in the context of these issues to “The Phoenix Male†as the object,thedescription of “The Phoenix Menâ€and “The Peacock Female†marriage, from“The Phoenix Maleâ€perspective to analyze their marriage behind deeperconnotation implied.This paper is based on “The Phoenix Male†that around the author to theway of the snowball for the study of the study to find out. Through depth interviews,their understanding of the problems in their marriage. The article is divided into threemain sections. The first part is the introduction,marital problems related to the studyof literature and combing,found the entry point and the requirements of the study ofthe problem. And explain the origin of this thesis,research ideas and researchmethodsï¼›second part is the main body of the paper,including the second, the third,the four chapters,Chapter II “The Phoenix Maleâ€and“The Peacock Femaleâ€Thedescription of the plight of marriage,the lack of support from the community and thelack of social support,explanations and instructions. The Chapters III and IV fromThe Phoenix Man’s point of view,The Phoenix Man expression on the responsibilitiesand obligations of family behavior,“The Phoenix Menâ€of individuals such as thesocial shaping of their marital problems analysis and interpretationï¼›The third part isthe concluding part of the article,is implied by an overall summary of the paper,forthe first two parts of the analysis and elaboration,analysis“The Phoenix Maleâ€and“The Peacock Girlâ€marital problems behind the binary tensionï¼›of urban and ruraldevelopment and,in the process of urbanization,the imbalance of “the Phoenix Maleâ€roles and social expectationsï¼›There is implicit in the clash of traditional cultureand modern culture. |