Rural Empty Nesters And Emotional Desert Research Soothe Mechanism

According to the family life cycle theory, the family life cycle typically includes the formation, expansion, stability, shrinkage, empty nest, and the disintegration of this six stages. The empty nest is a necessary family development process, but due to the extreme imbalance of urban and rural development, rural empty nesters received less attention of state and society, has become a social problem. Rural Empty nesters have rich emotional world, there is a certain spiritual needs, including family reunion, filial piety, and remarried four children succeed. However, due to various constraints, and their spiritual needs are not effectively met, the status quo inner emotional desert is very serious, there are inner emptiness, loneliness and other psychological problems and mental illness, and even lead to the empty nest syndrome generally have emotional problems of desertification.Because of local resistance and blood characteristics of China’s traditional rural reality subject to soothe emotions empty nesters mainly includes children, neighbors, friends, government, etc. Therefore, empty nesters soothe emotional mechanisms should first adhere to the "government-led, community collaboration, family responsible" to achieve multi-sectoral linkage, all three should each play a role in each other. Second, consider the basic principles of Marxism material determines consciousness, soothe emotions for rural empty nesters, should establish a new social security system, to expand the types and coverage protection. Finally, we must uphold the traditional virtues of care for the young, the whole society to create respecting elderly love old rich atmosphere, promote spiritual support, so respect the elderly has become a social and public awareness.