Guidance And Education Of The Female Postgraduates’concepts Of Love

In recent years, more and more women choose to continue their studies after graduation, who has really hold up half the sky. As Kochi groups of women, the female postgraduates prefer to attempt new ideas and new things. They approve the new concepts, such as "naked marriage","flash marriage", which have been shown in "husband","naked marriage age" and so on. The dual influence of Oriental traditional concepts and modern ideas of freedom makes them be at a loss in dealing with relationship issues."3S lady" is also more and more. An impolitic approach to these issues will affect their happiness. The female postgraduates are always on campus, the school guidance and education plays an important role. So in this article, on the basis of the analysis of the current situation of love, the author focuses on the analysis of the beneficial explorations and the existing problems about the education on the concept of love. Then the author actively explore the construction of the guide mechanism of the concept of love, in order to put forward some constructive suggestions.This article is composed of introduction and four part of the text.The introduction part mainly discusses the research background, research significance, research methods and research review.The first part is mainly the definition of the female postgraduates and the concept of love. In this study, the female postgraduates refer to the full-time unmarried students from the ordinary colleges female postgraduates. The changes in the numbers of them are shown in the form.Through the comparison of the female college students and them, their characteristics are more clearly shown. On the basis of re-examining existing materials, the author defines the connotation and extension of the concept of love.The second part is about investigation and analysis of the current situation about their concepts of love. This survey is mainly carried out through questionnaires and interviews. It analyzes six aspects:sense of love, concepts about love, love motivation, mate selection criteria, the view about the unmarried cohabitation and premarital sexual behavior, outlook on love education. The basic conclusion is drawn:The most of their conceptions of love are healthy, but there are some problems. And the education can not meet the needs of them.The third part is the analysis of the present situation of the education of love. The beneficial explorations are the curriculum about love, lectures, intervention of love frustration, sharing professional research. Problems are their teachers’ disregard, the lack of frustration education, the unclear position of lectures, the single education form, aside from the need of female postgraduates.The fourth part is the construction of the guide mechanism of the concept of love. It analyzes four aspects:the clear subject of education, perfect education content, rich educational approach, the construction of psychological counseling and intervention mechanism. It includes:the concerted efforts of counselors, professional counselors, teachers, tutors, and the improvement of psychological counseling center system. And the rich content about beauty, love social education, health sexual education and frustration education. And the effective ways such as implicit education, experience teaching, the psychological counseling and crisis intervention. And the establishment of psychological files, optimization of psychological intervention process. The goal is to guide them f to establish a correct outlook on love, and properly handle the problems encountered in the love.