Research On Relationship Between College Students' Forgiveness And The Satisfaction Of Love

In recent years,with the spread of positive psychology,people are increasingly aware of the importance of forgiveness,one kind of positive qualities.A lot of college students are affected by the emotional problems in their beautiful campus life,so how to use the positive qualities such as forgiveness and trust to promote the solution of emotional problems is of great concern.Forgiveness has an obvious positive effect on the improvement of the interpersonal relationship caused by the offence,and it can prevent further revenge and promote prosocial change from the perspective of dynamic mechanism[1].It has been found that forgiveness can increase positive emotion,improve subjective wellbeing,and is conducive to physical and mental health and inner harmony[2].At the same time,college students' emotional problems are often accompanied by the discussion of the relationship between love and trust,so the discussion of the three aspects of forgiveness,trust and love satisfaction has practical significance for the life of College students.Based on the above reasons,this paper is on the foundation of the summarization of the previous studies on forgiveness,trust and love satisfaction,taking the college students as the research object,using the method of questionnaire survey,trying to explore the relationship between college students' trust,forgiveness and love satisfaction.528 college students were investigated by using the questionnaire <College Students' love forgiveness>,and <the psychological test of love professional personality>.Among them,280 were male and 248 were female(1)Gender difference on college students' love satisfaction shows a marginal significant,so in the real life there may be some differences between the male and female students in the evaluation of love satisfaction.And love satisfaction is related to whether the partner is in the same city or not,is related to the main object of care during the growth procedure of college students.Among them,the love satisfaction level reported by the college students who gained parental care significantly higher than the love satisfaction reported by the college students who gained only mother's care or father's care.There's no significant difference between the love satisfaction reported by the college students who gained care only from mother and only from father.(2)There is no significant gender difference on the college students' love trust.In the real life there's may be some difference on love trust whether the partner is in the same city or not,but different main care effects love trust significantly.Among them,the love trust level reported by the college students who were token care by parents at he same time is higher than which only token care by father.(3)There is significant gender difference on college students' love forgiveness,male students report forgiveness level is significantly higher than female students reported forgiveness level.In the real life whether the partner is in the same city or not may effects the college students' love forgiveness,and college students' love forgiveness is no business with students' main watcher.(4)College students' forgiveness level plays an important role in predicting love satisfaction.(5)College students' trust level plays an important role in the prediction of love satisfaction.(6)In the process of the effect of forgiveness on the satisfaction of love,trust plays an intermediary role,that is to say,forgiveness affects the level of love satisfaction by influencing trust.From the above results,we can see that in the relationship between College Students' forgiveness and love satisfaction,trust is the intermediary variable.We pay close attention to the relationship between forgiveness and love satisfaction,at the same time,it is more helpful to achieve the goal of improving college students' love satisfaction and the quality of life by controlling love trust.