Reserch On Children's Peer Relationship In The Familise Of Neglected Parental Pattern

Nowadays,with the rapid development of modern society,the families in the cities and countryside have changed a lot.Because of the work or other factors,many parents have to choose the neglected parental rearing pattern,that will affect the development of their children,especially in their peer relationship.This study aims to find the relation between the neglected parental rearing pattern and children's peer relationship,to prove how does the choice of parents produce a role for children's peer relationship?Finally,we will use social work professional perspective and some effective methods and techniques to improve the parental rearing pattern,and use the influence of rational parental rearing pattern on the peer relationship the help their child have a good interpersonal relationship with the peer.The children will correct their wrong behaviors and improve the communication skills.This study selected some children from 7 nurseries in Q District,making a survey about the neglected parental rearing pattern and the peer relationship.As the same time this study will do the structured interviews and the observation with the children,parents and the teachers in the nurseries to understand the status quo and characteristics of peer relationship who parents choose the neglected parental rearing pattern,and sum up the effect and causes of children who has some difficulties in peer relationship.The results are as follows,the children whose parents use the neglected parental rearing pattern have two characteristics:First,objects of study always rely on their peers,The contact between the objects of study and their peer have become more and more frequent,they don't like to be with their parents.Second,the objects of study always have some Interpersonal problems,like social flinch,have violent behavior and easy to get engulfed in the hysterics.As mentioned above,there are there causes of these Interpersonal problems:First,families don't play a role in the child education.Second,parents'behaviors have influence on their child.Third,the objects of study can't adjust their behaviors by themselves.Based on the results from above,we talk about the feasibility and necessity of the social work,and try to put forward the some methods and recommendations.