Research On The Problems And Measures Of Contemporary Chinese College Students' Dormitory Interpersonal Relationship

As the main place to college students' life,dormitory is a rendezvous for college students' emotion and contradiction.Due to the influence of various interest relations and other factors,the interpersonal relationship will produce many contradictions and problems and it will burst dormitory interpersonal conflict in the process of the dormitory interpersonal.Finally,it will become the hidden trouble of the campus safety.Therefore,the construction of harmonious college students' dormitory interpersonal relationship is of great importance,the study of college students' dormitory interpersonal relationship is extremely pressing and necessary.The data shows that contemporary Chinese college students' dormitory interpersonal relationship is harmonious and the relationship is overall good between college students and their roommates in the whole.The dormitory interpersonal relationship has following features:the trend of "fast food";the osmotic effect of network is aggravating;the personalized features are more obvious.The survey results show that there are main problems about contemporary Chinese college students' dormitory interpersonal relationship:the cognitive deviation of interpersonal communication;the utilitarian tendency of communicative behavior;the small group phenomenon is widespread;the cold treatment of interpersonal conflict;the negative impacts of network-being.Combined with the survey data and interview result,the main factors that affect dormitory interpersonal relationship are:contemporary Chinese universities have huge differences between their values,economic conditions,lifestyle and communication skill,the dormitory education and management of contemporary Chinese universities are out of the need to reality,the communication between parents and students about dorm life is relatively few,the bad social ideological trend have a negative impact on contemporary college students.Therefore,contemporary Chinese college students,universities,parents and society should build harmonious dormitory interpersonal relationship together.College students should strengthen their own character accomplishment,correct the concept of fair competition,avoid adverse psychological impacts,learn and use communication skills.The education and management system of contemporary Chinese university dormitories should keep pace with time.Parents should raise the awareness of the college students' dormitory interpersonal relationship and the society should build a virtuous external environment.