"Chinese-style Parent-child Relationship" In The View Of Power

Parent-child relationship is an interpersonal relationship,in the individual growth and development process occupies an important position.In China,the study of parent-child relationship has been relatively perfect,but for the study of "Chinese-style parent-child relationship" related to the exploration is still small.In addition,the previous research is mostly from the perspective of parents,parents as the main body to explore the problems in the process of parent-child communication,this study attempts to young people from the perspective of parent-child contradictions to study the Chinese-style parent-child relationship.In this study,we use the quantitative empirical research method,and this study wants to understand the specific process of parent-child conflict in Chinese parent-child relationship and the result and influence of interaction.To understand the children's communication with parents,Parents' behavior,based on the unique cultural background of China,to explore the "Chinese-style parent-child relationship" behind the reasons.This paper studies the present situation,characteristics and causes of Chinese parent-child relationship from the point of view of parental conflict and harmony.This study uses qualitative research methods in the Chinese parent-child relationship to draw the following conclusions:The first aspect: from the contradiction between parent-child relationship,a comprehensive summary of the parent-child in the event of contradictions when the parents of words and deeds,values and parent-child relationship between the overall understanding,and through in-depth analysis to find children in the process of contradictions in the inner activities,Various coping styles,parental communication characteristics.The second aspect: On the basis of the above discussion,from the perspective of the power of the three-dimensional power view,the characteristics of parent-child relationship is very obvious,mainly for the parent-oriented,children obey their parents,while parents will use different strategies to apply to their children Power,in which the use of force by the parents and the compulsion of the child is a visible power,the study more to explore the form of love is a hidden power.The child's obedience is for a variety of reasons,the child's obedience is for a variety of reasons: fear of authority,children's economy is not independent,to avoid the conflict with their parents,traditional filial piety,desire recognition and not aware of The exercise of the power of the parents.Which obedience is both a passive acceptance and a coping strategy.Using the intergenerational conflict point of view and the "psychological-social equilibrium" theoretical model to analyze the reasons,respectively,the concept of intergenerational differences,intergenerational boundaries are not clear,China focus on relatives and so on.The third aspect: Based on the above analysis,this study can summarize some characteristics of Chinese parent-child relationship and analyze the reason.